“You and all apostates have nothing to offer.”
I've heard this song too many times before. I don’t speak for all “apostates,” but I didn’t choose my particular path because of what I could get out of it.
For instance, I’m not a Jew because of what Judaism “has to offer.” I didn’t leave the Witnesses because someone had something else better “to offer.” I’m not in it because I want to have a happy family life or some type of hope or feel secure or get answers. And I don’t think atheists and all religious people are that way either.
Apparently the Jehovah’s Witnesses, or at least those who sing this song, are in it for what they can “get out of it.” Like a rice Christian, they apparently only join a religion because there’s some of “gift tote” full of religious “swag.”
Sorry, but that’s a selfish way to be. Religion shouldn’t be about “me” and what “I” can get out of it and what it can do for “me.” I thought it was supposed to be about G-d.
“You have no answer as to why we were put on this earth and where we are headed.”
This is a lie JWs tell themselves. What they really mean when they say this is that “you don’t believe what we believe about the future of the earth, therefore what you have is no answer in our eyes.” But that is wrong.
Among Christians, Catholics have had almost the same identical belief regarding a future paradise earth but for 2000 years longer than the Witnesses. Most JWs have never bothered to read the Catechism of the Catholic Church to verify this, and those I’ve shown this to have often poo-pooed it as insignificant.
Of course, Catholics (other Christians who believe this) got the foundation for this belief from Jews and our teaching of Olam Ha Ba, life in “the World to Come.” We were the first to have the answer to “where we are headed.”
And who’s to say that those believe the earth won’t last forever are wrong? Does this current universe need to last forever in order for these religious beliefs to be fulfilled? What if you belong to a different type of religious tradition that has a completely different eschatology than what is shared among Jews, Muslims, and Christians?
And even if you aren’t religious and you believe in some other destiny for the earth, isn’t there usually an “answer” as to why we are here and “where we are headed” that many of these have? It may be something science-based that goes against what JWs teach, but it is still an “answer.”
I’ve heard all this before from others: “I’ve got a great hope for the future. I’ve got a great life now. I know where I am going.” It’s all “me, me, me.”
I left the JWs because it is indeed all about what “I’ can get out of it. It’s about “me” having all the answers. It’s all about “knowing” this and that, about making sure “I” am in the truth and correcting others who are not.
That’s not worship of a god. That’s worship of yourself.
Ever read the Book of Job? The most righteous man on the earth of his time asks G-d questions, and what does G-d answer in reply: “Who are you to ask questions?”
If this life is all there is, shouldn’t we be thankful for at least that? If you are in this just because you want to have some hope that when you die this won’t be it, doesn’t that make your choice to serve G-d conditional? “I’ll serve you and belong to your religion if I get all the answers, a happy family life, have a hope so that when I die I won’t be scared, etc., etc., etc.”
And a god who would make a religion like that is only encouraging selfishness. I don’t want to worship a god like that, and I don’t recommend that anyone else does.
So to all who think like this person who doesn’t want to leave the comfort of his self-serving, self-centered religion that caters to his need for “me, me, me,” it’s not about your failed prophecies or proving you wrong with facts and figures.
It’s about being selfish and self-serving verses being selfless and serving others. It’s not about convincing you that you are wrong, because it’s not about you. Like the song says: “You’re so vain, you probably think this song is about you.” Guess what? It’s not.
It’s about being there for those who do let facts change them from being part of a self-centered group that is concerned only about what they will "get out of it."
It’s not about what we have to offer, it’s about what you have to offer us. Since selfish people don’t share, I would guess the answer is pretty much “nothing.”