my 3yo daughter lives with me 4 days and with her mum 3 days.
i have her tues, wed, fri evening and saturday all day.
which means my ex takes her to sunday and thursday meetings but she doesn't go door knocking on saturday because she's with me.. i dont mind - at the moment - because in a way i want her to know the jw jargon so we can talk about it without having to explain what it is, and i want her to compare the bullshit to the real world.
It's ok at 3 mate. Mine were the same. After years of it though and then my daughter computing that I was 'in the world' she had a complete meltdown aged 7. Telling me Jehovah is going to kill me and my family.
Protect her. Time passes. Information gets retained and the result isn't at all pleasant.
I wrote all about it in a three part story around 7 years ago on here. Have a look.
this is a question for those who officially left the organisation and are married; and your spouse and kids are still in.'.
i just wanted to find out what your experience has been when you dissacociated.the following questions go through my mind all the time.
it always comes back to the what if's!.
I'd always go with a gradual fade. Why play by their rules and make things easy for them to implement their hideous shunning rules?
I faded years ago and it makes things easier all round. I quite like the dilemma most of them find themselves in when not knowing how to treat me. It perplexes them also that they have to see me living a fairly good life. They're privvy to stuff about my life that they certainly wouldn't be if they shut down all communication.
Of course, whatever you decide is your choice and your truest of friends will always stick by you regardless. Of that number you'll only ever have a few in life but I've found it's all you need.
Im all for disempowering their stupid rules.
i have it bodes well for a snap photo..
maybe you guys got on to this right away, but i've just noticed something about the remember the wife of lot video.. we all know the scene where the judgmental jw dad gives that disapproving look to the girl who has lesbian parents:.
this look actually appears again throughout the video - but on other jws.
in the scene where the new brother is out in service with the former co. look at the new brothers reaction to when a "worldly" person knows the former co from work:.
Declining beers on the ministry is a bad idea. It would've gotten the poor guy through that session. Silly boy.
did anyone notice the blatant stereotyping in the ' remember the wife of lot' video?.
the only thing missing with the oriental family was a pony tailed servant named 'hopsing' and that they all go off to work at the family laundry.. the mexican family ate tacos, refried beans, and hotsauce ('not there is anything wrong with hotsauce'....,sienfeld) at every meal, and of course the dad was a landscaper.
wtf!?!?
I felt they could've 'camped up' Marty the, ssshhhh, gay, realtor.
Tony Morris is to be pitied. Taking all his closeted gay rage out on the production of these ridiculously homophobic 'movies'.
Just go blow a guy Tony.
episode 3 is now out and available on itunes or whatever you use, as well as my site, linked below.
this one is heavier and about life at home growing up as a jw.
i even had an epiphany while recording it, which you'll hear as you listen.
Listened to all 3 this week at work.
Very well presrnted and articulate.
I always enjoy such stories as they always ring true with my own experiences. Will be looking forward to more of your episodes.
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tell me me more about your just & loving god..
Let's not forget David having adulterous sex and his punishment being the death of the baby.
God is so just and er, sound in mind.
Sheesh.
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tell me me more about your just & loving god..
Tell me me more about your just & loving god.
how did they ever get away with that and how does it go down now, in today's society?.
its fucking mental.
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How did they ever get away with that and how does it go down now, in today's society?
Its fucking mental.
episode 3 is now out and available on itunes or whatever you use, as well as my site, linked below.
this one is heavier and about life at home growing up as a jw.
i even had an epiphany while recording it, which you'll hear as you listen.
Got it. Thank you. Look forward to listening at work next week.
