hi there, thanks all for your comments
Alittle more about me: well actualy I allready had a bible study, it lasted about 6 months, back in 2010.
Been to asemblies , memoriels, but never did or will do FS.
After we moved, we also moved congregation, some elders came by our home to "welcome" us, yeah right. I could see it right away, that it was a guilt trip to my wife. I made it simple to them, I dont believe in God or any religion, to be honest, after my bible study in 2010, the jws managed to make me see all the BS, bt what the heck it was a free dinner every monday and sometimes sunday after meeting :) I just took advantages of the elder andd his wife I studied with, heehehehehe .
After we moved to the new cong, we have not heard a simgle word from any in the old hall, well ofcouse I dont expect to hear from any, but my wife did have a few "friends", but nada, not once.
the reason I wrote here was also cuz, I woundered, that since my wife married a "wordly" man and they don't recommend that, only to marry in faith and people even et disfollowshiped for marring wordly, but my wife never even talked to elders or anything.
My wife even join my family at christmas, birthdays easter etc.
I dont know, but one thing why she still hang on to jw, could be, bc she dont want dissapoint her mom, even that she is 10000 km away (dad not jw)
i totally agree, this religion, is not a religion, it uses the bible as a cover, but its all abot fear control guilt tripping. I do understand why people get depressed.