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by AnonymousUser in

hello.. my name is sam.

i would firstly like to say that i am not a jehovah witness, and i hope that being on this forum without being in the religion will not offend anyone.

i am only 16 years of age, however i am interested in the religion of jevohav witness due to my girl friend.

AnonymousUser

Thank you.

But I can say right now that this girl would do anything for me aswell. The problem is how she has to lie to her parents constantly to see me. Now she comes and sees me most days after school and tells her parents that shes seeing her mates. Then she'll do anything to try and see me. on the weekend if she wont be allowed out she will say shes just walking the dog to see me. She risks so much for me and I do the same for her. Thats why I cant just end it. Its not that shes listening to her mum, because she isnt. She hates the religion and feels it restricts her.

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Your Reply Would Help Me A Lot

by AnonymousUser in

hello.. my name is sam.

i would firstly like to say that i am not a jehovah witness, and i hope that being on this forum without being in the religion will not offend anyone.

i am only 16 years of age, however i am interested in the religion of jevohav witness due to my girl friend.

AnonymousUser

The thing is however, that how can her mother think like this when she was in a relationship when she was just 13, who is which her husband right now. They went through the same as we are, but they do not want to make it any easier. Like me, her father is not religious and doesnt mind me. Her mother is a JW and does not want anything to do with me. If she was with someone at 13 years of age and grew up to be with them until present, which is 25 years on, how can she not think the same could happen to her daughter?

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Your Reply Would Help Me A Lot

by AnonymousUser in

hello.. my name is sam.

i would firstly like to say that i am not a jehovah witness, and i hope that being on this forum without being in the religion will not offend anyone.

i am only 16 years of age, however i am interested in the religion of jevohav witness due to my girl friend.

AnonymousUser

Hey.

I appreciate everyones replies, however I've been involved with this girl for a year now. I just cant walk away from everything now. We've been through a lot together and have got through it all. I just couldnt forget about her.

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Your Reply Would Help Me A Lot

by AnonymousUser in

hello.. my name is sam.

i would firstly like to say that i am not a jehovah witness, and i hope that being on this forum without being in the religion will not offend anyone.

i am only 16 years of age, however i am interested in the religion of jevohav witness due to my girl friend.

AnonymousUser

Also, one thing I forgot to mention was that its only this girls mothers side of the family that is religious. Her father has nothing to do with religion. Her parents have been together since they were 13, so you would think they would understand what we're going through. Its just seems impossible to get through.

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Your Reply Would Help Me A Lot

by AnonymousUser in

hello.. my name is sam.

i would firstly like to say that i am not a jehovah witness, and i hope that being on this forum without being in the religion will not offend anyone.

i am only 16 years of age, however i am interested in the religion of jevohav witness due to my girl friend.

AnonymousUser

I appreciate all replies so far so thank you.

However to one reply. What I am looking for now is not illegal. Her mum once said to her that if I really felt what I said I felt then I would wait until shes 16 to date her. I would do this, however I feel if I said to her mum can I be just a friend to her until shes 16, she would not accept it.

I am just looking for some way of her mum understanding that I will wait until shes 16, just being her friend, if that helps?

Sam

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Your Reply Would Help Me A Lot

by AnonymousUser in

hello.. my name is sam.

i would firstly like to say that i am not a jehovah witness, and i hope that being on this forum without being in the religion will not offend anyone.

i am only 16 years of age, however i am interested in the religion of jevohav witness due to my girl friend.

AnonymousUser

Thank you for the replies so far.

Its just it can get frustrating sometimes.

I would do something for her daughter, which she appreciates, but she only appreciates it because her daughter has to tell her it was one of her female friends. If she said that I did it for her then her mother would say how she shouldnt have anything to do with me. How can she not want anything to do with me and not accept me, yet accept some one else purely due to how they dress and their school?

Thank you.

Sam

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Your Reply Would Help Me A Lot

by AnonymousUser in

hello.. my name is sam.

i would firstly like to say that i am not a jehovah witness, and i hope that being on this forum without being in the religion will not offend anyone.

i am only 16 years of age, however i am interested in the religion of jevohav witness due to my girl friend.

AnonymousUser

Hello.

My name is Sam. I would firstly like to say that I am not a Jehovah Witness, and I hope that being on this forum without being in the religion will not offend anyone.

I am only 16 years of age, however I am interested in the religion of Jevohav Witness due to my girl friend. Her family are strict to the religion. She is only 14 years of age. I have been told that it is a sin to be casual dating under the age of 16. Since her mother found out about me she has not wanted anything to do with me. She would not let her daughter see or even talk to me. She said the only thing her daughter could do was end what was going on between her. I understand that this is what she believes, but I am willing to just be friends with her daughter until she reaches the age of 16, but I am afraid that she will not accept this. However her mum accepts for her 14 year old daughter to be friends with males aged 17 and 18. She accepts them purely because they go to a Grammar school and are thought to be smart. However what she did not know is that they have had underage and have casual sex (not with her daughter), they drink alcohol regually, they smoke and take drugs. I do not drink, smoke or take drugs as I am totally against it.

Is there any thing that you think I can do or even say to her for her to even accept me as a friend of her daughter? Also, I genuinely do mean that I would wait until shes 16 until I date her.

Any help would be grateful and once again, i am sorry if I have said anything to offend any one in this topic. Thank you.

Sam