Well, shame on you for being abrupt, I didn't know that was a disfellowshipped offence, lol.
Everyone has their own path to follow, in the end it's up to you. I think you can see by now that you won't be able to get anyone else out, so the only thing left to decide is the manner and timing of your exit, the end result is pretty much the same, with the possible exception of family that will or will not be forced to shun you.
I can say the leaving itself is the hardest part, it is hard to lose friends abruptly. Once you get through that though you can start to rebuild your life. However hard that is, you will then have freedom to live life on your terms. Freedom is a wonderful thing, once you have tasted that you will wonder why you waited so long. Already you are changing, in ways big and small, so you will find you will have less and less in common with your JW friends. However much you may cherish them, the relationships cannot and will not be the same, so cherish the memories and begin to let them go.
Yeah, it's the deep end of the pool, but come on in, the water's fine!