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  what is the sales technique here?

  by Kevin McFree in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  jw's will never knock on your door and say, "hi, we are here to convert you".

  speaking to a reporter recently a jw media rep at hq said " our main purpose going door to door is not to convert but to share bible truths with people".

  does anyone know the sales techniques involved here?

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  LisaRose

  It's called lying.
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  So my PIMO Younger Brother Tried To Kill Himself Today

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  we all know that this cult will drive those trying to leave to desperate measures, and today by brother was very nearly one of those statistics.

  he slashed his thigh with a kitchen knife and was bleeding out until he called the police.. i got a call on my way home from work from a police officer, coincidentally it was one of my old friends from school who's now a cop.

  he told me my brother is in hospital after an attempted suicide and has lost some blood but will be ok. but i should get to the hospital as he's asking for me.

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  LisaRose

  I am so sorry to hear about this, it must be awful.

  Perhaps you can ask to speak to whoever is in charge of his care and let them know of this abuse by his family and the elders. Your brother may not be able to fully express what is going on or is feeling guilty about his attempt. They need to know what they are dealing with.
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  Something every JW should watch...

  by SplaneThisToMe in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  one of us on netflix.

  this is a documentary on hasidism.

  i wish one day a similar documentary will be made for watchtower.

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  LisaRose

  I watched this, it was very interesting. It shows the cost of leaving a high control group, it takes a toll. A woman should not loose her children because she chooses a different religion, but that is what happens.
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  It's My 25th Birthday!!!

  by Cimarrona in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  and i'm glad to alive and celebrating!

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  LisaRose

  Happy Happy Birthday!
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  Sufjan Stevens Watchtower Collage video

  by scotsman in

  1. social
  2. entertainment

  i think many of us will recognise where sufjan’s got his clippings from.

  https://youtu.be/22qkbw_c_ym.

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  LisaRose

  An outrage? Because someone likes music you dont it's an outrage?

  You must have one miserable life Fisherman, you must go around in a permanent state of outrage.
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  Pull the Plug Already...

  by megaboy in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  after reading and seeing so many detailings of the dealings with people in this religion, i have to wonder how to get people who are just extremely asleep.

  reasoning doesn't seem like it works, there needs to be some kind of plug pull event, like the leaders doing something so uterly stupid that it causes the immediate downfall of the entire religion.

  but because i am naturally curious i want to know from people who have more experience with jw structure why they seem to have a resistance to an event like this?

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  LisaRose

  Something troubling happens in the organization. Brother Sheepy wonders about troubling information, but the idea that this means that this is not "the truth" is scary. Brother Sheepy would have to leave and loose all friends and family, possibly his employment. He would have to admit to non JW acquaintances that he made a huge mistake and has been wrong about everything. The cognitive dissonance is strong, the idea is unacceptable to him, so he reasons that it is just a trick of Satan, it must be a trick of Satan, the brothers said that would happen. It's far easier to grasp at that thin explanation than question everything you know, it's human nature.

  Even in cults where the leader made a specific date prediction that turned out not to be true, most people stayed. One group spent the night on a roof, convinced the end was going to happen. In the morning everyone got down off the roof and pretended nothing happened, most did not leave the group. That's why 1975 did not result in a mass exedus, but a trickling away over the next twenty years.

  You have to already be questioning for these things to have any effect. If you think back to your own questioning, did the first bit of suspect information cause you to go, or did it take some time? For me it was a number of things over a number of years, until one day I had an epiphany, a brilliant glimpse of the obvious, the Governing Body was just making stuff up, just like every other religion.
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  Non JW wife/JW husband Christmas tree debate

  by spacegirl443 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  first post here and looking for advice and help.

  sorry in advance for it being so long :(.

  i'm a happily married woman (no kids) who is a non-jw, presbyterian to be precise.

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  Yes, he is supposed to allow you your tree, although why any person would ever feel that it is up to him to "allow" you to put up a tree or not is crazy to me. Do you throw away his Watchtowers? Why should he throw away your posessions?

  When you got together he wasn't a JW, so he is the one that changed not you, so why should you be expected to make all the compromises?

  But unfortunately that is the situation, he is in a cult and that cult will dictate his choices from now on, all you can do is decide if this is something you can live with.
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  Should I stay or should I go?

  by BlackWolf in

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  2. friends

  hello everyone, i haven't posted anything on here for a while and today i just really felt like i needed to get my thoughts together.

  (if you don't know me please read some of my previous posts).

  so pretty much not much has changed in my life, i'm still living with my parents and going to all the meetings and service.

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  LisaRose

  I would stay where you will have better educational opportunities, with your parents. It might be tempting to go with your aunt, but that is a very short term improvement, in the long run you will be happy you stuck it out
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  New job blues

  by Jayk in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  finally just got a really good job, i'm learning a trade and i love it.. its been a long time coming without any help from my family.

  i'm in my late 20s finally about to be able to provide for myself.

  it feels great but i still feel in missing something.

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  LisaRose

  Of course you feel like something is missing, you just lost your family because of the religion, a job isn't going to replace that, even for an introvert.

  It will get easier as time goes on, you will make friends and eventually have a family of your own. For now just focus on putting one foot in front of the other and take advantage of any opportunities to meet new people.
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  Bought My First Christmas Tree Last Night

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  last year i didn't bother with christmas as it still felt like a "nothing" day to me (thanks watchtower!).

  this is the 2nd christmas since waking up and leaving the cult and i've finally bought my first christmas tree:).

  i have no idea what to do with it though.

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  LisaRose

  Decorating the tree is one of my favorite things to do. Every ornament has a memory of the year I bought it, they are like old friends at this point. I always put on nice Christmas music and just enjoy the decorating process. You should go with your little one and help her pick out her own first ornament, that way you will both have a nice thing to remember in the future. Don't be surprised if it's ugly though, three year olds sometimes have questionable taste.