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  A letter to my family

  by monkeyshine in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  please see the following thread with the updated letter (personal details removed).

  letter to my family.

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  earthtone

  Okay I read it and it sounds logical to me and I'm sure to others on this site, but we are xJW's. They are probably going to see the stance they are taking as "doing God's Will". They think they are suppose to shun you. From what you have told me your sisters are pretty cold-hearted. I don't think they will understand what you are saying, About putting families first, because they are taught to put God first, always.

  Overall I think it's nicely done. You made a good point about the elders stepping down for their family, but the elder is still attending the meetings. Big difference from you, who doesn't go.

  I wish I was more helpful. I just wanted you to be aware of what the reaction will most likely be.
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  A letter to my family

  by monkeyshine in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  please see the following thread with the updated letter (personal details removed).

  letter to my family.

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  earthtone

  shine, it's so small. I can barely read it.
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  Need marital advice

  by lost_light06 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i need some serious advice.

  i just found out my wife has been emailing some guy she met at her work.

  she gave him her cell # and said she wanted to get together and connect.

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  If it is true, find out if she wants to resolve the marriage or divorce. It is not worth the time, money, or effort to go to counseling if she wants out

  This is so true. When I was done with my first marriage, I was done. There was nothing he could say that would have made me stay. And I still don't regret it. So let her know, that the gig is up and if she want's to work it out, that's great but don't keep hanging around like a lost little boy if she doesn't. You'll only hurt yourself more.
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  Need marital advice

  by lost_light06 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i need some serious advice.

  i just found out my wife has been emailing some guy she met at her work.

  she gave him her cell # and said she wanted to get together and connect.

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  I'm feeling you anewane. My first husband was a total wuss. I'm not saying you should cheat, but I can understand you.
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  Need marital advice

  by lost_light06 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i need some serious advice.

  i just found out my wife has been emailing some guy she met at her work.

  she gave him her cell # and said she wanted to get together and connect.

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  earthtone

  Mines say's marital advice?
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  Need marital advice

  by lost_light06 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i need some serious advice.

  i just found out my wife has been emailing some guy she met at her work.

  she gave him her cell # and said she wanted to get together and connect.

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  earthtone

  I love how the ad's at the bottom always apply to the topic! Cute
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  Need marital advice

  by lost_light06 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i need some serious advice.

  i just found out my wife has been emailing some guy she met at her work.

  she gave him her cell # and said she wanted to get together and connect.

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  And even then, only after formal separation and/or divorce.

  I was agreeing with most of what you said until this part... sometimes it doesn't work out like that. If it's over it's over. But it's definately better to do it this way.

  And I have to agree with anewane to a point. When sh*t is on the rocks, and you want to make it work and you know there is something going on talk about then.Don't keep sneaking around for more evidence.
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  Need marital advice

  by lost_light06 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i need some serious advice.

  i just found out my wife has been emailing some guy she met at her work.

  she gave him her cell # and said she wanted to get together and connect.

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  lmao @ wing commander. Are you the other man?! It sounds like he wants to keep his wife!

  Okay, this is my take. There ain't no privacy when your married IMO. Others may feel differently. But if I thought something was up, I'd check the email, voicemail and pager. She should not be talking to another man and keeping it from you, if it's innocent. I get pm's all the times from guys on this site and my hubby knows about it. So I saw cut this off while it's early. You have enough evidence, why let more happen. You'll only be angrier. If she wants out there's nothing you can do about it anyway. And how do you know this is the first guy she's tried to meet up with?

  Now on the other hand if you think the trust is gone, you might want to do thing commander way. He gave you some pretty sound advice.
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  August In Photos (OFG Is Still Alive)

  by OpenFireGlass in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  bonus pictures.... bear scratching post.... .

  some of the mess i have to clean up..... .

  my dog waiting for me in cab of the truck.... .

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  earthtone

  Image 15 of the tree looks like a hmmm! I got a creative imagination. lol
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  Was Lot A Righteous Man?

  by jayhawk1 in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  i just have to ask this question.

  was lot a righteous man?.

  2 peter 2:7,8 says "and he delivered righteous lot, who was greatly distressed by the indulgence of the law-defying people in loose conduct- 8 for that righteous man by what he saw and heard while dwelling among them from day to day was tormenting his righeteous sould by reason of their lawless deeds.".

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  earthtone

  It didn't die Jay, everyone went to . lol