i need some serious advice.
i just found out my wife has been emailing some guy she met at her work.
she gave him her cell # and said she wanted to get together and connect.
And even then, only after formal separation and/or divorce.
I was agreeing with most of what you said until this part... sometimes it doesn't work out like that. If it's over it's over. But it's definately better to do it this way.
And I have to agree with anewane to a point. When sh*t is on the rocks, and you want to make it work and you know there is something going on talk about then.Don't keep sneaking around for more evidence.
i need some serious advice.
i just found out my wife has been emailing some guy she met at her work.
she gave him her cell # and said she wanted to get together and connect.
lmao @ wing commander. Are you the other man?! It sounds like he wants to keep his wife!
Okay, this is my take. There ain't no privacy when your married IMO. Others may feel differently. But if I thought something was up, I'd check the email, voicemail and pager. She should not be talking to another man and keeping it from you, if it's innocent. I get pm's all the times from guys on this site and my hubby knows about it. So I saw cut this off while it's early. You have enough evidence, why let more happen. You'll only be angrier. If she wants out there's nothing you can do about it anyway. And how do you know this is the first guy she's tried to meet up with?
Now on the other hand if you think the trust is gone, you might want to do thing commander way. He gave you some pretty sound advice.
bonus pictures.... bear scratching post.... .
some of the mess i have to clean up..... .
my dog waiting for me in cab of the truck.... .
Image 15 of the tree looks like a hmmm! I got a creative imagination. lol
i just have to ask this question.
was lot a righteous man?.
2 peter 2:7,8 says "and he delivered righteous lot, who was greatly distressed by the indulgence of the law-defying people in loose conduct- 8 for that righteous man by what he saw and heard while dwelling among them from day to day was tormenting his righeteous sould by reason of their lawless deeds.".
It didn't die Jay, everyone went to . lol
so... i finally have thought about somethings that i want to say in my letter to disassociate... in my last topic starter regarding this, someone had meantioned disfellowship papers?
why would they be sending disfellowshipment papers if i take myself out?.
in the letter, i am thinking about making the one to my friends kinda short and sweet and to the point.
I'm kinda with Baba on this one, just stop going. You don't have to tell them anything. You don't owe them any info.
so the co visited my cong and at the ms and elders meeting the brothers were told that those wiht parts on the platforms must not have sideburns, mustaches, beards or shaved heads because it is worldly.
as well bright colorful dress shirts are not permitted eother because it distracts from the "important message" of the talk.
there was also heavy counsel on tattoos.. on a totally different topic, i was talking to my mom the other day and she was going on about how free she would be in paradise.
oops life, I couldn't get any braids in my hair, because it was too ethnic and showed pride in one's race. Whatever.
i saw my daughter for the first time today, since she was disfellowshipped.
just to make it clear, i refuse to shun her so she insists on shunning me.
today was unavoidable.
Not much more for me to add here. You've gotten some great advice.
Just tell her you were wrong and that you love her. We aren't perfect and all make mistakes. You did it out of love and thought it was the right thing to do. Stop beating yourself up about it. It will only make you more miserable. Be happy that you saw thru it all now and not 5,10, or even 20yrs from now. You could have lost a whole lifetime but your not. That's something to be happy about. Very happy.
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i think that when you are in a cult like the dubs, things stick with you whether you want them to or not.
i still pray before meals and bedtime...anybody else?
I back down to my fiance all the time when he asks my opinion on matters concerning money "respecting his position as head of the household". He hates it. He wants me to make the final decision and I still can't.
Me too, I still have the " the man is the head" mentality that I can't seem too shake. Me thinks my husband likes it
so, i know someone who's training to be a piercer, and he asked if he could practice on me!!
so of course, i obliged!!!.
and here's what i've got to show for it: .
I got my tongue pierced. I couldn't eat for weeks. I lost a lot of weight. My husband con'd me into taking it out(said it wasn't professional looking Now I miss it. I was thinking of getting it repierced. You can buy clear tongue rings once it's healed and no one will know I have it. But I hear it hurts worst the second time around. But the thought of losing weight again is such a lure.
this is an incredible video.
it may take a few minutes to load but it's worth it.. http://video.yahoo.com/video/play?vid=23af1dde394f5f83347374a6b24ed662.715691&cache=1.
runtime is 2 minutes..
That was so cool! It was like looking at a kite. lol
