First off, In answer to your question, I say YES. I believe that you can be grateful for your kids but not grateful to god.
Why do I say this? I'm not sure I have a coherent answer.
I am someone who has not yet said that I am an athiest. Partly because I think I don't want to believe that there is NOT a god. Add that to the fact that my husband definitely believes in God and Jesus. I tell him I believe in them but I'm not sure I believe myself. I do this to keep the peace. He wants to go to church because he feels a need to have god in his life again after several years of abandonment. He never was at the point to not believe but just didn't go to church.
I on the other hand, believed with my whole heart that Jehovah was God and Jesus was his son. I guess I still do, the problem is I can't believe that God would let a crack mama have babies who are addicted to crack. Then me, who strives to keep myself healthy and doing all the "right" things still CANNOT get pregnant. I am doing all the right things. I swear.
This is not the only issue I have with GOD. I was a dubby for my whole life up until a few years ago. My ex husband was a total scum bag, yet he is STILL in good standing with the BORG. Wait on Jehovah, well I did and it was slowly KILLING me (literally). I am finally free and I had to take this action on my own.
Well, while typing this I come to realize that it's not GOD with the issue but the BORG. I am still bitter and find it hard to walk into another building that supports organized religion. My current husband has tried to get me into a Catholic church and a Baptist church. I cannot bring myself to do either. I believe right now in this point in my life that Organized Religion is a RACKET.
I guess I'll stop venting now.
Thanks for the topic.
Marie