Delite:
I sympathize with your situation, but the posts so far are right....he obviously doesn't really know what he wants (he wanted to fool around with you, but is confused because of his JW-ness) and will try to keep you hanging around for when he decides. My advice to all women is run far far away from JW guys. They are generally very confused. I know you are attached to him, but there are PLENTY of other fish in the sea. My advice is to go out and find someone else to kiss and hug on, and you will soon forget him. Try learning (this is hard for girls!) to enjoy the kissing and hugging, etc for its own sake, and not confusing it with "love". This is especially hard if you've been raised a JW and taught that every time there is physical stuff the only justification for it (if any) is that you must want to marry the person. It's a load of crap! For me, going out and dating whoever I wanted, while pursuing my own interests and life and not getting overly involved in ONE guy, certainly helped to get over those hangups I learned as a JW female (still working on it, but I have managed a few!)
Find something else to do, buy a vibrator.....move on!