http://www.untitledlife.com/2005/10/19/meet-the-duggars/
This has some very strong opinions of the family if you read the responses.
And I have to agree with some of them. Especially the 'buddy' system they have outlined. If you cannot bring up your children without assigning them a 'buddy' in the form of an older bro or sis, who, in all respects, 'raises them', then I think it may be time to STOP having kids. Just my opinion.