Oh my Melly....I am so sorry to hear this. There are a-lot of people who have gone (and going through) this. I am one of them. We are here for you to talk to and lean on. Don't give up!!! We are not the crazy ones!
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A newbie's post...reposted since it got buried...Welcome!! Melly!
by megsmomma inthis is from unique1....... (i made it into paragraphs for easy reading).
i have used up my postings for today and think this one needs to be put up.
mellybean left her first post on my most recent post.
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A newbie's post...reposted since it got buried...Welcome!! Melly!
by megsmomma inthis is from unique1....... (i made it into paragraphs for easy reading).
i have used up my postings for today and think this one needs to be put up.
mellybean left her first post on my most recent post.
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This is from Unique1....... (I made it into paragraphs for easy reading)
I have used up my postings for today and think this one needs to be put up. Mellybean left her first post on my most recent post. If you haven't used all of yours can you post this for me? Melly's part is in quotations. Thanks.
Melly posted this on my page and I thought it deserved a post all its own. I hope you don't mind Melly but there are people here who have experience with this situation and will be more informative than I would.
"Hello I am new to the forum! I am not an active JW anymore due to the hypocracry of the religion.To make a long story a little shorter I was raised as a JW and ended up marrying out of the truth right after high school. I ended up pregnant and disfellowshipped. Well I ended up staying with my ex-husband for four gruesome years and had two boys with him.
That was about 6 years ago. I had remarried about 6 mos after the divorce to a very new to the truth brother. We did really well and he was a great step father to my two children that my ex never cared for or supported me with. Up until about a year ago.
I always allowed the children to visit my ex's mother all the time even though she stabbed me in the back all the time. Now she is a JW, but shouldn't be! She has been allowed to keep going to meetings and associating with everyone while harrassing me and making false accusations against me and my husband and telling the elders that my husband and I abuse and neglect our SON, she only cares about the first son, not the second!
Well she called the police and child protection agencys numerous times throughout the year on us and all the times the authorities would dismiss the findings because there was no findings of any abuse or neglect in our home! Because of this I stopped letting her see the two kids because she was trying to seperate our family that we were getting back on track due to some personal and financial problems.
Well just recently she took me to court to get visitation rights to see the boys. The elders didn't seem to care that she was doing this to us, probably because we don't go to meetings anymore, but I did not show up at the court, so she ended up getting papers on going about and getting custody of my two sons.
For a year now, I have suffered from her games and the congregation won't do anything about it. My parents go to the same congregation up there and the elders made my dad step down because they think that he is part of this and that the ex mother in law should be able to see her grandkids.
Yesterday~March 27th, I ended up giving up my parental rights due to depression and thoughts of suicide and not being able to fight her anymore. I just can't believe this can go on in a religion that condones going to court. Why can't she be disfellowshipped? She even has people in the congregation on her side and helping her do this. she's lying to them about us as parents.
I am a great parent, my husband and I had a son together and we have never abused or neglected any of our sons, she is so full of shit, her nose is brown!!! :) Can someone help me try to cope with this horrible situation since I do not have really any friends due to leaving this cult!! "
I think first you should seek counseling and soon and hopefully get yourself better so you can get your parental rights back. Second try meetup.com and see if there are any EX-JW's in your area you can meet up with. You can also look in the apostafest section of this board -
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Some of you said my baby Megan is cute..Here is more:
by megsmomma inthanks for saying she is cute...i must agree, but i am biased!
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So sorry anewme (((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))) I have an 8 year old in the Cracktower too....so I understand. I do feel so blessed to have the chance to "do it right" with this baby though. I appreciate it so much more.
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Some of you said my baby Megan is cute..Here is more:
by megsmomma inthanks for saying she is cute...i must agree, but i am biased!
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Ok all...I am done showing off!! (BTW, I just learned how to post pics....so now you are all in trouble!!)
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Some of you said my baby Megan is cute..Here is more:
by megsmomma inthanks for saying she is cute...i must agree, but i am biased!
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Some of you said my baby Megan is cute..Here is more:
by megsmomma inthanks for saying she is cute...i must agree, but i am biased!
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Some of you said my baby Megan is cute..Here is more:
by megsmomma inthanks for saying she is cute...i must agree, but i am biased!
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Thanks for saying she is cute...I must agree, but I am biased!
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Even Worse - I am really starting to hate this religion
by unique1 ini first want to thank you all for your support over the past few days.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/131534/1.ashx.
i did finally get a reply from my dad (after a week and a half) and i almost wish i hadn't.
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Even Worse - I am really starting to hate this religion
by unique1 ini first want to thank you all for your support over the past few days.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/131534/1.ashx.
i did finally get a reply from my dad (after a week and a half) and i almost wish i hadn't.
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We won't tell my hubby till he has already met your hubby. I think the "tension" would be fun though!! My husband's dad looks almost exactley like Duke's couch! People will stare at him and he has to just say.."No, I am not" Your hubby should get a picture with him for fun!
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Even Worse - I am really starting to hate this religion
by unique1 ini first want to thank you all for your support over the past few days.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/131534/1.ashx.
i did finally get a reply from my dad (after a week and a half) and i almost wish i hadn't.
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I am looking forward to it!!!!! DO you think we can cause some drama on this board by posting that we are drunk AGAIN...having a "shite for parents fest"!! LOL!! I can drink some beer! My husband is going to love being around so many Tar Heels...I may have to get into it myself!
Edit: My husbands start date is July 1 st...but if we can be there sooner, he can start sooner. YAY!!!!!!!!!!!
On Valentines day...Daddy got us flowers!
Did I do it???????????