Shadow you should remember we are all survivors here! Many of us have lost families and love ones not in death or war but by not staying in compliance with the religious teachings of WTB&TS.This happens in many religious groups.
It's called Remembrance or Veteran's Day not out of the lust for glory or self aggrandizing love of war.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flanders_Fields
Like Forrest Gump said "that's all I have to say about that."