Hi there, for me personaly the way i see abortion is as murder, because you are ending that childs life, some argue that it is part of the mothers body and she can do what she likes, but that isnt so, the child is an individual growing inside the mother, its not her body.
In the end i know sometimes a pregnancy can be unwanted (definatly in the really bad cases, rape), but at the same time i think you have to keep it because it is a person, and to me its no different to killing a 2, 3, 10, 20 year old person, there isnt any difference if the person is murdered 6 months before birth or 6 months after birth, the life is still being ended. its still a person just the same way me and you are, and even though it might not be convenient or easy to accept its wrong to have an abortion in. (thats my opinion)
As for being disfellowshipped, you have to be baptised first, but i dont think thats what id worried about id be alot more worried about the childs welfare and future life. (and the state of my consience)
Sam87