Is Mary the Magdalene the sister of Lazaras? It is thought not
Yet the Mary of Bethany , Lazaras' sister, didn't cook(like a man) for Jesus' visit, and she is not reprimanded when her sister complains about her.
Jesus well knew his followers,it seems. Peter complained about Mary magdalene in other writings--writings deemed heretical.
Yes Pete influenced the early church. And the patriarchal big "C" church persecuted for centuries that unbroken tradition of the women-are equal-to-men branch that HAD understood Jesus' teaching about women. One being the Cathars.
But to return to the OP. Jesus' teachings have been helpful--if you have ears to hear.