mulan:
..I have wondered that too. Of all of our ex JW friends, all were either elders, ministerial servants, Bethelites, pioneers, missionaries, or more than one of those at the same time..
I just had posted to that point last days.
This was just my experience all the time I'm JW. The most hypocritical persons were the most diligent ones. They confounded org-service with "strive to perfection", with "worldly career" and oppressed plain proclaimers with injustice.
Now, at the end of their way of hypocrisy, and gone away from the org, they are striving to proof the evolution-theory and the non-existance of God exactly with those words taken from the bible (it's an exception yes; but has indeed happen!)
I am not in the mood to forgive and love those ones anymore any time.