Posts by SnakesInTheTower

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email fwd from my mom: utter BS..bet the sheeple eat this crap up and MY REACTION

by SnakesInTheTower in

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i received this crap from my jw mom today.

i hope it doesn't "encourage" you to go back .

you see, when i left, i immediately felt the relief of not being burned all the time by all of the gossip that occurs within the congregations, circuits, etc.

SnakesInTheTower

jackie....

sadly my mom calls less and less.... she gets upset for various reasons.....a) in her eyes I am living "in sin".... she wants us to get married...we want that too but other issues outside of our control interfere,.... it will happen soon...on our terms, not anyone elses....she is happy I am getting married....she would be happier if I was marrying a dub... (see my stories about how well looking in the Borg for a spouse worked out for me)

b) I was the only one of three of her sons that got baptized...she was so proud in 2002 when I graduated from MTS....she made sure to be here for that...it will be interesting to see if she comes home in May for my graduation from college.....she promised....

c) she has no one to talk about "spiritual" things....sadly....the last few years I was in she and I spent more time complaining about various atrocities and injustices perpetrated against us by other JWs... and only limited time discussing WT related articles and meetings.

My mom left this town before it completely ruined her.... she moved to where she knew almost no one.... now she has been uprooted again...and her only "friends" are local dubs.... and those are very conditional... I never hear about her doing social things with "the friends".... just out in service...usually with the marginalized and the elderly.

As to sending her the Generation chart....I hope she takes it at face value...I sent her the one with only WT references...the "JW friendly" version...if she really still studies deeply maybe she will see the evolution of the whole Generation doctrine....if not, she will glance over it and then toss it aside. Most JWs will look at that chart and their eyes will glaze over.

I love my mom.... I miss her...she lives too far away...... but I wont let her interfere with my relationship with Toni..... and I will pass on your greetings...she is asleep on the couch right now ....Hunter is in his room watching tv...thus the only reason I have much time on the board....dishes are done...laundry is done...one bed is made I have another to finish...kid had his bath.... it is reasonably quiet...

thanks for the feedback...keep it coming...I need it...this is tough to deal with...

Snakes (Rich )

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Whatever happened to the poster named V?

by SnakesInTheTower in

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i get a 403 message for the watchtower comments web site... the youtube channel hasnt been visited by v in 8 months and it was april when v was here last?.

anyone know what ever became of v?

thanks for the update....pm me if you would rather not post on the public board.... snakes (rich .

SnakesInTheTower

I get a 403 message for the watchtower comments web site... the YouTube channel hasnt been visited by V in 8 months and it was April when V was here last?

Anyone know what ever became of V? Or can you say?

Thanks for the update....PM me if you would rather not post on the public board...

Snakes (Rich )

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email fwd from my mom: utter BS..bet the sheeple eat this crap up and MY REACTION

by SnakesInTheTower in

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i received this crap from my jw mom today.

i hope it doesn't "encourage" you to go back .

you see, when i left, i immediately felt the relief of not being burned all the time by all of the gossip that occurs within the congregations, circuits, etc.

SnakesInTheTower

lm:

Im sorry you had to receive that Snakes - I instantly delete that crap too unless a family member sneaks one in

that's ok...I just sent her that Generation teachings chart that was posted elsewhere..fair, right?....lol

Snakes (Rich )

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email fwd from my mom: utter BS..bet the sheeple eat this crap up and MY REACTION

by SnakesInTheTower in

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i received this crap from my jw mom today.

i hope it doesn't "encourage" you to go back .

you see, when i left, i immediately felt the relief of not being burned all the time by all of the gossip that occurs within the congregations, circuits, etc.

SnakesInTheTower

I am not sure what to say back to her. It wont be in an email. I prefer in person or if that is not possible on the phone.

I was going to call her today but now that she has sent that I dont want to call her. I dont want her thinking that I am calling because she sent it...nor do I want to argue with her about it.

So more time will go by. Maybe she will call. Or maybe I will call and not bring it up. If she brings it up, I think I like what OTWO said: "Yes, everyone was getting burned in the organization and those that left on their own cooled off. But as soon as they return, they will be burned again."

oh well, it is what it is. If it had come from anyone other than my mother, I would simply have deleted it and ignored it.

Snakes (Rich )

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email fwd from my mom: utter BS..bet the sheeple eat this crap up and MY REACTION

by SnakesInTheTower in

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i received this crap from my jw mom today.

i hope it doesn't "encourage" you to go back .

you see, when i left, i immediately felt the relief of not being burned all the time by all of the gossip that occurs within the congregations, circuits, etc.

SnakesInTheTower

what makes me so angry is that my mom has time to issue this utter bullsh*t in an email but she cant pick up the f*ck*ng phone and call me to see how I am doing?

I don't know whether to laugh, cry, or scream. So damn sad.

Snakes (Rich )

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Did Your Congregation Have Sex -------------

by megaflower in

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talks, public sermons.

i bet you thought this thread was about something else,lol.

we had them quite often, hmm must have been a huge problem.

SnakesInTheTower

what is especially bad about the local needs parts is that on the Service Meeting schedule it rarely if ever stated what the topic was going to be. It just said "Local Needs...... Brother Pervert"

If the elders were doing what the Borg directed, they would discuss the topics as part of their quarterly elders meetings. The topics would be known well in advance. Publishers could then know in advance if this was going to be appropriate for their preschoolers or not....

...oh wait.... that's right..... in a cult you don't get choices. They spring this crap on you out of nowhere and you have nowhere to hide. If you get up or just leave, then you are viewed as an immature prude who cannot handle a supposedly mature topic. Or...you must be embarrassed because you are doing whatever it is they are discussing....wait for your JC invite to an investigational inquiry.

As a single brother I never was allowed to give those sex talks...thank goodness. I would have refused it anyway.

And as a talk coordinator...I would not schedule the sex and marriage talks unless the BOE or PO directed me point blank to schedule it....unlike the Local Needs talks...the Public Talks usually are posted weeks or months in advance...giving people ample opportunity to visit another congo or just stay home and have sex......

Snakes (Rich )

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email fwd from my mom: utter BS..bet the sheeple eat this crap up and MY REACTION

by SnakesInTheTower in

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i received this crap from my jw mom today.

i hope it doesn't "encourage" you to go back .

you see, when i left, i immediately felt the relief of not being burned all the time by all of the gossip that occurs within the congregations, circuits, etc.

SnakesInTheTower

I received this crap from my JW mom today. I hope it doesn't "encourage" you to go back . Her email had the opposite effect on me. It tells me I made the right decision leaving the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society, The "Christian" Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses, et al.

You see, when I left, I immediately felt the relief of not being burned all the time by all of the gossip that occurs within the congregations, circuits, etc. I was not consumed by the constant need to "Do More™." I was an elder and regular pioneer. I gave my entire life from age 4 or 5 until age 40 to the pursuit of Theocratic Goals™. Everytime I was pulled down a notch or two, I would fight my way back up the ladder. I reached all of the goals that I had set for myself except CO. After MTS, I realized the whole religion was a scam. The whole CO arrangement is nothing but a managerial technique for the corporation to keep an eye on its congregations -- better and more accurately known in the early days as "Companies." After 2002, I began looking for answers. It took me another 4 1/2 years to leave. I gave up chances at careers, education, family...all in the pursuit of the all consuming glag of "doing what Jehovah wants," but in reality slaving for Watchtower.

So, if you are someone that is still in the Organization, and you are lurking on this board reading this...know that I am not some "crazy apostate" but a former JW that did all that he was told and then some. When (and very likely not if but you will) recieve the below email..and I am sure it has made the rounds multiple times in the past...think about what the "Fire" in the illustration (because no way in hell did this "sheperdng call" actually happen...how dare he mess with his hosts fireplace)...REALLY represents ...not the warm glow and support of the organization...not the supposedly warm love of fellow brothers and sisters.....but the burning consumption of a cult and the harsh embrace of fellow cult members.

SnakesInTheTower (Rich...of the "now free of the embers of Watchtower" Sheep Class)

> The Shepherding Visit
>
> A brother, who previously had been attending meetings regularly, stopped going. After a few weeks, an elder decided to visit him.
>
> It was a chilly evening. The elder found the brother at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for the elders visit, the brother welcomed him, led him to a comfortable chair near the fireplace and waited.
>
> The elder made himself at home but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the dance of the flames around the burning logs. After some minutes, the elder took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone then he sat back in his chair, still silent.
>
> The host watched all this in quiet contemplation. As the one lone ember's flame flickered and diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and dead.
>
> Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting. The elder glanced at his watch and realized it was time to leave. He slowly stood up, picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately it began to glow, once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around it.
>
> As the elder reached the door to leave, his host said with a tear running down his cheek, 'Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fine encouragement.. I will be back in the Kingdom Hall next Sunday'.

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Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

by creativhoney in

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they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

she says she is going to just go and blag.

- even attend a few meetings if necessary.

SnakesInTheTower

sister of creativhoney:

My so called friends who the elders asked to go into the JC refutely deny accusing me of apostasty

When I was given so-called Private Reproof (aka Unannounced Reproof) back in 1991, I was charged with being "double-tongued" (lying). The people that were called in as witnesses (other than the initial accusers) were told they had to testify or they would go down too. The question that was asked of each or the regular pioneers in that meeting was: "Do you think Brother {Snakes} lied? Yes or no?" Any answer or attempt at explanation other than Yes or No was met with an interruption by the chairman of the meeting. Uanimously then I was accused of lying. Interestingly, the two elderly regular pioneers that would have backed me were not invited to the meeting of regular pioneers. Nor were any of us told that the whole thing was a JC in sheep's clothing.

In another congregation, I was accused by an elder in a multi-page letter to the society of all kinds of sins, including lying. Included were supposed quotes of different ones in the congregation. The letter caused my reappointment as an elder to be delayed 10 months. When I was eventualy reappointed, I got my hands on a copy of that letter. I showed it to those quoted publishers...they were horrified. They either never said it or were taken out of context.

Elders who want to get you will do whatever they want. It is why I let them remove me back in Dec. 06.

If you go, screw with their heads. Either way, with multiple predetermined "witnesses" available to the elders, you are going to be DF. Good luck to you...but in my opinion.... skip the meeting.... get on with life.

Snakes (Rich )

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Thermostat "wars"...stories from post-Borg life continue :)

by SnakesInTheTower in

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i dont post or even read on here nearly as often as i did in the early days of my exit from the watchtower.

much has happened since i walked away from "the truthtm" and when i can get a few minutes i will post an update.

i also owe freeminds a story...one i have to rewrite after losing my hard drive.

SnakesInTheTower

quandry:

Perhaps you could go to Victoria's secret and buy her a fluffy robe with matching slippers

For Christmas I got her a flannel nightgown and slippers that she had been eyeing in my Land's End Catalog. She was wearing the nightgown in bed......the new slippers were with all of the other shoes lined up by the living room door. I got something else she wanted from VS. .

LOL at outlaw... I got my ass chewed out yesterday afternoon by my fiancee because the 8YO penguin wouldn't put on his coat when he got out of class when I picked him up... I was told it was 40F and he needed a winter coat.... I had a coat on but a light one...the 8YO said he was hot...I took him at his word...let him keep the coat off. He had a shirt on, he was fine. Not so much according to my heat-resistant bride. Under 50 winter coat..... I thought it was warmer than 40.

After my lovely bride to be and I went to bed, I got back up to check the thermostat (now programmed for 68 between 2pm and 9am...60 between 9am and 2pm when she is not here)..... and i also checked the National Weather Service web site...it said it was 51F at the time I picked up the 8YO..no wonder he said he was hot with the coat....

... I turned off the computer, gave the cat a final pat......slipped back under the covers...snuggled up to my beautiful gal...and asked her what she thought the temp had benn...she said 40........ told her 51.....she called me an ass.....and started trying to wrestle me. ...the night ended with us laughing and falling asleep....yes...just laughing and falling asleep...she had to work this morning...damn..no time or energy for anything else. lol

Snakes (Rich )

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The Assembly Experiences - Standard Format

by sd-7 in

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matthew 6:1: "take good care not to practice your righteousness in front of men in order to be observed by them; otherwise you will have no reward with your father who is in the heavens.".

"now we'd like to call to the platform brother so-and-so, a [let's face it, capital letters should be used] regular pioneer and elder in the blah-blah-blah congregation.

brother so-and-so, what helped you to put kingdom interests first?".

SnakesInTheTower

but I could not watch that past about halfway through

0:33...that's all I could take..never made it to the interview... the "convention" cadence of the speaker about made me hurl...

....Snakes (Rich )