the problem is that you don't know what these other people have personally been through to get to the point THEY'VE reached. This board and the people on it, while more than ready and willing to reach out with encouragement and support for those who are in need, are not ALL about you. The people here, whether active or inactive, didn't cause your problems, nor did they individually or collectively do harm to your family. In essence, you're attacking them in a most vulnerable and painful way. Perhaps if you stop judging so harshly, you won't be judged so harshly. And yes, you are judging. You say you're not, but you most definitely are. You want everyone to line up and be like you, have your attitude and if they don't, their behavior or lack of action is unacceptable to you.
Frannie, I have been visiting this site as a gest for some time now, and have been following this persons topics and post for a couple of weeks now. I sined up a min ago so I could reply to this one. If they are who I think they are, then I think you should tread very carefully with your coments. If I am correct, they have been through hell and back and not just recently, but for years now. Alot of the ones on this forum, I'm sure have had there past trying circumstances, but none, I don't think, can compare to what they have had given to them over the years, and all dealt out by family and so called friends that were all, and still are active jehovahs witnesses. I don't believe that they are judging ones on this board, just stating it as they see it. If I am right about who they are, then they are the last people that would judge anyone, they just don't understand how people can't be honest with themself and everyone around them.
Just go easy...unless you have been in similar circumstances, (and it's not for me to say what these are) you have no idea what a can of worms you would be opening if you pursue your line of accusations.