Sorry to hear rr - I think you have the right not to punch, but when another JW says something to you like "come back of Jehovah" or whatever, to tell them to mind their f**ing business or whatever your favorite word is, after all you just lost your mother, and point that out to them, you are mourning her loss, not in the mood to hear any of their *^*^" nonsense.
I was my moms legal guardian and I decided to give her blood, of course that was the day some nosy sisters came and visited and saw the port, and told the elders, One of them called me and asked why, and what I told him during our phone conversation probably used more "naughty words" than a Chris Rock and Eddie Murphy concert combined. He was quite friendly to me at her memorial though believe it or not.