I was a born-in, but never bought into it, they way I was treated by my the majority of my peers in the Cong, never being invited to the teenage gatherings, etc.,but the sentence below from NoviceLocs14 makes my blood just boil:
The elders, unsatisfied with me not returning their correspondence, looked up the number to my new job and proceeded to call my job several times a week
I would've cursed them all out and reported them for harassment, how do these assholes think they're so high an mighty !!