I'm watching the show now, this husband ain't exactly elder material to me, seems kinda weak to me. Plus the fact CPS has called on them 7 times? Something is going here.
The wife got something wrong though, she said the Borg only believes in divorce for adultery and physical abuse? Ha! A wife can go to the Hall with two black eyes and they'll just tell her to pray and go out in service more, and some elders tell the wives it must be their fault if they're getting abused.