my friend has been married 25 years.
he works with another jw.
they kissed and he touched her nipples but did not have sex with her.
I didnt address their marital issues. They resolved them but yes I would be upset as well.
After the fade I went to some meetings and they tried to get my publisher cards and such. I told them thats not happening and I just won't come to the hall anymore. I guess everyone is bored so now they are picking me apart and the thread.
The thread was entitled "loose conduct" not "my friend transgressed his wife and needs advice getting her forgiveness"
my friend has been married 25 years.
he works with another jw.
they kissed and he touched her nipples but did not have sex with her.
I wish I knew how to quote..... I clicked the quote button but cant get out of it once I paste the quote to type normal again.
He told the elders himself. I remember they used to say the level of repentance must match the gravity of the sin(complete BS)
I told him to display fruits befitting repentance and do a complete 180 and turn away from his sinful course.
I was thinking he needs to get his wife in on the meeting and show that she forgives him. He needs to say that he is so upset that he hurt Jah, the congregation and his wife and that he doesn't even feel worthy of his forgiveness.
I think we may do a mock monkey trial and practice it a few times.
my friend has been married 25 years.
he works with another jw.
they kissed and he touched her nipples but did not have sex with her.
I remember they asked my ex did you he use a condom, where did you get the condom? He just had it and he put it on? Did you perform oral sex on him?
my friend has been married 25 years.
he works with another jw.
they kissed and he touched her nipples but did not have sex with her.
Yeah I told all of them to S my D years ago #Faded
my friend has been married 25 years.
he works with another jw.
they kissed and he touched her nipples but did not have sex with her.
Whats funny is they already decided not to pursue their affair.... One spouse knew and did not want the elders involved. My suggestion to my friend was to go to the JC with his wife, say that he did a complete 180 and rejected his bad course and wants to stay with his wife. He feels bad and was wrong for transgressing Jah his mate and the congregation. They want blood and want to DF him for no reason. No pornea was committed
my friend has been married 25 years.
he works with another jw.
they kissed and he touched her nipples but did not have sex with her.
he doesnt care.... he messed up a whore blew him 20 years ago. Its ridiculous I told him bring his wife into the JC say he loves her they are staying together
my friend has been married 25 years.
he works with another jw.
they kissed and he touched her nipples but did not have sex with her.
My friend has been married 25 years. He works with another JW. They kissed and he touched her nipples but did not have sex with her. They ended the affair and he is staying with his wife. They say he is guilty of Lose Conduct and are putting him thru a JC. Is this the case? She is married and is staying with her husband. What can he expect? Can He get Dfed? He wants to stay with his wife and not get DFed
i assume you are all aware of this by now.
qfr could a christians practice of viewing pornography.
become so bad that it results in his being expelled.
I think this is a very dangerous stand they are taking on porn.... This can result in many things
1. A lot of Dfing's because of Porn
2. More adulthery because people do not have an outlet for their frustrations in unhappy marriages etc.
3. People not coming forward about their porn habbits and a general moral decay will occur, they will cover up or lie about little things like porn viewing then they will do bigger things like commit fornication and justify that since they didn't say anything about their porn viewing why should they about the fornication.
This is a policy that will have to be retracted, what do you think?
i assume you are all aware of this by now.
qfr could a christians practice of viewing pornography.
become so bad that it results in his being expelled.
Las year I cleaned up the Watchtower conductor's laptop which had been "porned up"
maybe it's just by one of the elders..... he told someone not to help me out because i did not heed council (almost 2 yrs ago i was counciled).
and maybe i would take advantage of them because he doesn't know my "status" i was thinking about returning evil for evil..... what if i got a disfellowshipping form, filled it out with his info and sent it to the branch.... you think that would work?.
The wife thing isn't going too well... she cheated on me but only got reproved, which is fine I would never want her to go thru it again.... We aren't together. I stay for family reasons. I don't know what else to say I feel really "beat up" by these people and controlled
