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  Are any of you aposates?

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  i don't think i am an apostate, but do feel like one for being on these boards as we were always warned not to at the meetings etc.. i disagree with so many things they teach, the main thing is the blood issue....being a new auntie, i love my niece soooo much and if i were the only person that could save her, how on earth could i not?

  i'd be blood guilty for not saving her!!!!!

  that in my books, would be murder.. however, may be it's because i've only been away from the mtgs for a year, but i still think of it most days and although i feel i've made the right decision as nothing was making me happy in it, and obvioulsy my ex beating me and getting away with it.....i still feel a certain pull towards it and a kind of insane loyalty???.

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  KCM

  Hi

  I don't think I am an apostate, but do feel like one for being on these boards as we were always warned not to at the meetings etc.

  I disagree with so many things they teach, the main thing is the blood issue....being a new auntie, I love my niece soooo much and if I were the only person that could save her, how on earth could I not? I'd be blood guilty for not saving her!!!!! That in my books, would be murder.

  However, may be it's because i've only been away from the mtgs for a year, but I still think of it most days and although I feel I've made the right decision as nothing was making me happy in it, and obvioulsy my ex beating me and getting away with it.....I still feel a certain pull towards it and a kind of insane loyalty???

  Anyone else feel like that? Or am I just a weirdo?

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  Confused!!

  by KCM in

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  have only just started posting on here.

  read everyone elses though ... :-).

  as some of you may know, i've just got my divorce through.

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  It's so so true what you are all saying...I do have the rest of my life ahead of me and I do hope things get easier. Itg's just going from loads of friends where I always had things to do, to having no one is what I find hard....think maybne a regular salas class is calling!!! :o)

  Thanks guys, fingers crossed by the end of the year I'll have a different outlook on my situation.

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  Confused!!

  by KCM in

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  have only just started posting on here.

  read everyone elses though ... :-).

  as some of you may know, i've just got my divorce through.

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  KCM

  I come down every three weeks roughly. Course I don't mind the kids in tow.....a lolly pop should sort them out??!!! ;o)

  In the summer we could take them to the beach...I'm a big kid and would love any excuse to build sandcastles....lol x
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  Confused!!

  by KCM in

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  have only just started posting on here.

  read everyone elses though ... :-).

  as some of you may know, i've just got my divorce through.

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  OMG nvrgnbk, that's awful - I'm glad I got divorced. Who knows what's around the next corner, rather out now then when i'm six feet under! Thanks for that posting, made me feel better about my decision.

  Dobbie - Hmmm, Yaunon, I'll find out how far that is. I don't have a car right now, but if it's not that far, we could meet half way or something!

  I like that - wear a smile!! It's good advice, i think i look miserable most of the time so will make more of an effort to change that!! :o)
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  Confused!!

  by KCM in

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  have only just started posting on here.

  read everyone elses though ... :-).

  as some of you may know, i've just got my divorce through.

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  Hi Dobbie!

  You've given me some great ideas, I think I'll try and join some sort of class. :o)

  Funnily enough, I have a boy friend now and he's from Dorset....and I'll be there next weekend! Where do you live - I'll be in Weymouth, Wyke Regis!

  No one knows about my bf, I know it's going to come out sooner or later, but for now, I'm happy to make my ex suffer like he did me. I'm such a cow!!!

  If you fancy meeting up, I'll be up for it.

  xxx
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  Confused!!

  by KCM in

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  have only just started posting on here.

  read everyone elses though ... :-).

  as some of you may know, i've just got my divorce through.

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  KCM

  Guys...thank you so much! Your friendly words really cheered me up. :o)

  Avidbiblereader, I can't believe you got dissed even though you hadn't attended mtgs for months, can I ask why? (you don't have to tell me if you don't want to)

  bstndance: yeh you are right, who cares what the elders say.....

  In all honesty I am actually happier away from the meetings....it's just a little hard adjusting to being able to do what I want and be free..... :o) Feels so good though!
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  Confused!!

  by KCM in

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  have only just started posting on here.

  read everyone elses though ... :-).

  as some of you may know, i've just got my divorce through.

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  KCM

  Hi All,

  Have only just started posting on here. Read everyone elses though ... :-)

  As some of you may know, I've just got my divorce through. Well......I was told by 2 elders last week (I had to have a kind of judicial) that my grounds for divorce were not sufficient. It's unbelievable, I've not been to the mtgs in 10 months and no one has tried to help me, yet my ex - who beat me, has got a fantastic reputation and is 'doing really well'. While I've been left to start my life over again. Thank goodness for not having any kids and still being so young I can rebuild my life.

  Sorry to moan guys, it's just I don't really have anyone else to talk to as all my friends were in the 'truth'. I'm finding it pretty hard in this big wide world...but one thing is for sure....I know I definitly do not want to return to the mtgs!!!!

  Has anyone got any advice for me on how to make friends etc...I sound really sad don't I??!! Gosh, 22 and no mates...sad!!!

  Thanks guys, really appreciate your help!!

  XXX
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  Newbie!!!

  by KCM in

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  i'm a newbie on here.

  been away from the truth for nearly a year now and have just got my divorce from my violent ex who is stil serving in the congregation.

  found things hard and still am, as the 'truth' is all i've ever known....so am on here for some well needed support, if thats ok?

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  Thanks Paul. I know what you mean.....I was surprised to read some of the experiences I have on here.....it's such a shame so many people have gone through the things they have. As you said though, we can support eachother. :o) Thank you for your kind thread.
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  Newbie!!!

  by KCM in

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  i'm a newbie on here.

  been away from the truth for nearly a year now and have just got my divorce from my violent ex who is stil serving in the congregation.

  found things hard and still am, as the 'truth' is all i've ever known....so am on here for some well needed support, if thats ok?

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  KCM

  Thank you!!! Divorce was best thing.....finally free to move on with my life!
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  Newbie!!!

  by KCM in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm a newbie on here.

  been away from the truth for nearly a year now and have just got my divorce from my violent ex who is stil serving in the congregation.

  found things hard and still am, as the 'truth' is all i've ever known....so am on here for some well needed support, if thats ok?

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  KCM

  Hi everyone,

  I'm a newbie on here. Been away from the truth for nearly a year now and have just got my divorce from my violent ex who is stil serving in the congregation. Found things hard and still am, as the 'truth' is all I've ever known....so am on here for some well needed support, if thats ok? xxx