This is sort of a connected subject to Englishman's prior post. It's a difficult subject, so I'm sorry if it upsets anyone. But it's been on my mind for a few weeks.
I'm sure that for all of us WT "survivors" (thanks for that term, Esmeralda), the idea of our funeral being used as a propagandistic sales pitch for the WT is repugnant.
But, for those of us whose family are still JW's, it's a very real possibility. If I were to die tomorrow, I am sure my family would insist upon the JW formulaic services, even if they knew I did not want to go out that way. It makes me sick to think of it.
In fact, I am considering amending my will to try and prevent that happening. This is a bit ironic, since my will currently includes the text of the blood card! My lawyer's certainly going to be curious!
I'm thinking of putting in paragraphs specifically forbidding a Kingdom Hall service, requiring a non-religious burial procedure, and forbidding any of my material goods from benefitting the grubby blood-stained hands of the WTS. This latter item may admittedly be difficult, since my wife will have control of my estate.
But, I'm just starting to think of how to do this, how to word the thing. In fact, I'm not even sure it would be legally binding, or enforceable.
Is there anyone here with some general legal knowledge who can give some basic guidelines before I spend copious cash in a conversation with my lawyer? If so, it's much appreciated.
Anyone else with ideas on wording: please feel free to chime in!
Expatbrit