LDH:
It hurts, yes.
I don't miss the WT in any way. I will never go back. I rejoice in my newly-found freedom.
But it hurts to see my wife and family still in that web. It hurts to see them think I will die "any day now". It bloody well hurts when I consider their thoughts: that I've joined Satan's side, rejected the good, embraced the bad.
I have no real hope for them in the future. They're all committed JW's. My Father's a zealous newly appointed elder; my Mum is so happy that her formerly opposed spouse is now with her. It was her spiritually dead son, of course, who performed the conversion. Something to torture myself with on insomniac nights.
So I will never truly be extricated from the WT web. There will always be hurt and conflict caused by the venomous spiders in Brooklyn.
It's not all doom, though. There are small victories every now and again. And to read of others' successes (such as yours) is most encouraging.
We've all been hurt by the WT. Yet reading about your daughter and her normal, happy, achieving life made me think that, together, all of us contribute to a victory. We can all take some pride in your daughter's successes, because together we are making a triumph of humanity over dogma and totalitarianism.
So thank you for sharing that with us.
Expatbrit