Thanks Sloppy for cluing us in on your reasons for posting your thread. It makes sense .However , their is always a however isn`t there . Sorry.`bout that .
If you are just going to become a Catholic because the girl you love is a R.C. and you do not really believe in it , is that being honest with yourself ? or honest with your future wife ? Is that a good basis for marriage.?
It`s a fallacy to think that only religion , no matter which one , instills good morals .Think Islam and its extremism ,think Catholics and Protestants in Ireland , and you could go on and on , and on .over the Centuries ,
It is also a fallacy to think that Atheists / Agnostics do not have good morals .
Morals are not dependant on religion of one belief or another .that is a fallacy.
Proof of that is the different morality of all the major religions of the world today.
If your future wife insists she will only marry you if you become a Catholic , what does that say about her , and her love for you , and if you agree to her demands , what does that say about you.
smiddy