Welcome Novice locs 14 (how did you come up with that handle ?) never mind .And no need to feel nervous anymore most of us have experienced that when we first posted on this forum.
You are among friends here who have had similar experiences as yourself.
I tend to be a bit of a loner ,I dont just jump in and try to make friends with people I first meet ,rather I will sit back and analyse what type of people they are .( I know people who jump in at the first meeting with someone as if they are long lost friends and then live to regret it LOL)
My wife and I joined a few clubs ,senior citizens ,their Opportunity shop ,Probus ,and a table tennis group ,just to meet and socialise with people ,and at least you get to know people in the world are not like the WT portrays them to be.
Human beings are the same everywhere in a religion ,in politics ,or in social organizations ,some people you like some people you wont like.
Thats life.
My husband has encouraged me to just ago out there, find out what I enjoy and meet like minded people who do those things.
Your husband is a wise man ,take his advice
I wish you and your husband both well ,especially in your journey exiting the JW cult.
Take care.