Now I am feeling sorry for your Mother....
mouthy, me too. I was just having a hard week.
BTW I do this because I love her, not because I owe her. She was mentally ill when I was growing up, my antics were nothing compared to hers. Also I paid for my antics by surviving six teenagers.
I am also doing this for my dad who always took care of me and of my mom, and who put me in charge when he died.