One elders response, (I was leaked this later by an elder friend), was "why is HE so depressed? Did he max his credit card out?" Other than tossing me a few articles I was on my own.
Such a typical elder response.
Right before I "left" the congregation, I was going through a bout of depression. The first question to come out of every elder's mouth that I talked to was......"did you do anything of a judicial nature that you need to tell us about?"