well then just take it out on all JW's then. I was reading sunspots profile and on she admitted to being a troublesome person in the truth. her attitude would not have endeared those of her family not in the truth. I think in or out of the truth it is our attitude towards others regardless of what others say or do, that makes a difference.
I think if someone is an apostate and puts them down all the time, they should be shunned. The churchs never used to allow homosexuality or fornicators adulterers now they except it some even marry gays, Gods standards have never changed but the churchs has. Jehovah's Witnesses standards have remained the same on these issues. Damned if we do and damned if we dont'.
What about the many that leave because there spouce have become a JW, I have known some brothers and especially sisters that have put up with shocking abuse but stayed because they wanted to set an example, and scriptually no adultry was proven for them to go. You all talk like JW's have never done a decent thing in their lives, they are all tarnished or not worthy of a nice word.
Not many give them a far go. But I can tell you for sure that most people would rather be in a black out with a JW than almost any other group, they can trust them for honesty and morals, the majority of them that is. But no there all low lifes.
And yes I have been DA and I have been isolated and alone. I know what it is like, but it is also ourselves we have to look at cant blame everyone else all the time because of our own failings.