First of all: thank you Alice. Your threads have provided me with many laughs this evening.
Secondly: I think the point of your initial post was that you are bewildered by the fact that people of differing religious views on this site call each other friends. Did I get that right? Correct me if I'm wrong (I'm sure you will), your post was rather hard to follow...
Let me clarify the issue for you: JW's are among the few people on this planet who would have asked such a question. Most people realize that people of various beliefs/backgounds/opinions can find common ground and build a friendship. Most people do not confuse "unity" with "uniformity". Most people are not brainwashed into thinking that people have to all think alike. Most people are free to agree to disagree on certain issues and still learn to love each other. But you are not most people, are you?