Dear DakotaRed
You wrote:
I had doubts too, but submitted to the pressure and was baptized. After that, they own you, or at least they act as if they do. To bring out the doubts later just subjects you to DFing and shunning, the most unloving and unchristian act the dubs do, in my opinion.
You are not pressured into doing anything you don't wont to do.I know for a fact that they ask you if your absalotly sure and ready for baptizim.What do you mean by shunning?