Posts by tenyearsafter

I don't know if leaving the JW's has any correlation to your children's work ethic. I am assuming they are in they mid-20's? My son had a similar attitude, and it seemed to be quite common among his friends. I don't think they were lazy so much as feeling "entitled". I blame myself for this to a degree...but not because I left the JW's, but rather I made it too easy for him. I paid for college, let him live at home after college and tried to give him "all the things" that I didn't have growing up. I have talked to several friends (who were never JW's) and they experienced the same challenges with their kids.

The good news...they seem to wake up at some point. My son is now married, has a good job and seems to be pretty squared away. Don't give up on them...

TYA

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Music you never get tired of listening to

by TD in

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for me it's scott joplin.

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tenyearsafter

James Taylor and the Eagles

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Catch 22?

by rvalich in

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logical problem with jw/christians:.

tenyearsafter

Maybe sin caused an "allergic reaction" to venom making it poisonous??

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Elder's Manual Question

by satinka in

my youngest brother is the family jw patriarch, and an elder, maybe even the po in a small northern town.

in an email i asked him if he ever hears from my kids.

i happen to know he lives in the same small town as my son, who might very well be an elder, too...by now.

tenyearsafter

Exactly!

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Elder's Manual Question

by satinka in

my youngest brother is the family jw patriarch, and an elder, maybe even the po in a small northern town.

in an email i asked him if he ever hears from my kids.

i happen to know he lives in the same small town as my son, who might very well be an elder, too...by now.

tenyearsafter

freydo,

Most elders would consider that the DF'ed person has commited spiritual suicide...it is never the elder's fault, so thus there is no guilt!

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Your favorite "bumper stickers"

by new boy in

jw
friends

i have two.

"please god protect me from your people".

"if you love something let go.......if it doesn't come back, hunt in down and kill it" .