I really like your thoughtful post, bluesbreaker. Especially this part
I personally believe you should try to be the best person you can be each and everyday of your life on this planet. Help out your fellow man when you can, and love those special to you unconditionally. Why do you need to go to a church to have someone tell you about "prayer requests", "church announcements", certain "ministries", "singing songs"??? Can't you just follow the Bible, if you want??? I don't feel that I'm any closer or further from God, Jesus, or whatever when I'm at home, church, work, kingdumb hall, etc. I always feel the same distance.
Because of a post I made yesterday I've been thinking a bit about my own spirituality and wondering if I have any. Your description above is more or less what I believe, and I'm concluding that is what being spiritual is.
I think its really good that in our day we can openly say how we feel about God and Jesus and keep on challenging religious ideas and myths and not feel that we are somehow going to be damned out of existance.