Junction-Guy:
But that is just it, without an ultimate authority, then who are you to tell me what I should think is ethical?
So might makes right then? Whoever has the most power makes the rules? How is that ethical?
by the way you are totally off the map with your analogy,
Is this addressed to me? I don't believe I used an analogy. (Hard to know if you meant me as you didn't quote or address anyone directly.)
not everyone was raised as a JW, and not everyone has to deal with the baggage of being in a cult. If I were raised anything other than JW, I most likely wouldnt have the anger issues that I have dealt with, and then I wouldn't even be here, or even entertaining the idea of revenge or anything else.
OK, stating the obvious but it makes sense. If nobody had wronged you, you would not feel the desire for revenge.
I am a christian , and I am obliged by my belief system to treat others as I would like to be treated,
Wow! Obliged by your belief system? Again, I treat others as I would like to be treated because, well, because that's how I'd like to be treated.
however I am human, and when other people offend me, I am not above getting angry and hurt.
Nor should you be. It's a normal reaction. However, as a civilised human, you should be above plotting elaborate revenge on those who have offended you, even if you do it by proxy.
I am not perfect and don't claim to be. I am just a sinner saved by grace.
Unless of course your god chooses to resolve the injustices you have caused, i.e. if he does unto you as you wish he would do unto others. But you want "justice" for your enemies, and "grace" for you. Double standard, no?