Some of you may have seen my post in jedi masters topic but if you haven't I will re-post it here:
I'm new to the site, my wife and I are are doing the fade we still have a son and daughter-in-law who are still in so we don't want to get hung. I was an elder for 25 years and was removed because I didn't agree with the GB on an important issue and spoke privately and with trust to another elder who broke that trust and told the other elders and CO about my disagreement. At first my wife and I were devistated but now we see it was the best thing that ever happened to us. We started to examine more extensively things that were not quite right with the borg and within a month realized what a snare and a racket the whole thing is. Since then we have faded. We still go on a Sunday every few months, (keeps em guessing) and we still love all the people and they love us in fact it's been a real confusion for the congregation because we were referred to as "gems", "pillars" etc.What we have found is that we are now able to do more with our extra time in truly giving people the help and comfort they need. One elder in the congregation who was diagnosed with cancer a few months ago said we have been the only one's who have visited them since his illness. I told him it was because everyone else is too busy with meetings and field service. I think it made him think. (him and his wife still go to meetings but that's not really visiting in my opinion it must not be in his opinion either or he wouldn't have observed what he did)
We love the opportunities and time we now have to give help and comfort to those in our congregation it may be like throwing fiery coals on the heads of those who may now hate us because we are no longer active. Ro 12:20. Not that we feel these people are our enemies but we may not be able to trust them at some point. So we now are able to show them what it's like to serve the God of comfort by giving the same comfort God give's us.
I look forward to being a part of this forum and sharing the experiences we have had and keeping the fine fight of the faith to preserve our Christian freedom.