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  My sisters wedding...

  by zamora251978 in

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  below is a copy of the e-mail my sister sent me.

  i had to make arrangements for my kids to be babysat somewhere else until after the wedding.

  there little hearts are broken.

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  zamora251978

  Yep, I have to talk to my dad and see if he is going to walk me down the aisle. If not I am getting my uncle as a back up.
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  Quote of the Day

  by purplesofa in

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  " it is never too late to be what you might have been".

  i read this today and thought of you.

  purps.

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  zamora251978

  "A sandwich just isn't a sandwich without the tangy zip of Miracle Whip" ---ha ha ha
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  My sisters wedding...

  by zamora251978 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  below is a copy of the e-mail my sister sent me.

  i had to make arrangements for my kids to be babysat somewhere else until after the wedding.

  there little hearts are broken.

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  zamora251978

  I think my mother did some work on her. She said that she is doing whatever she thinks is right to be happy on her wedding day!!! She also told me that she wants to see our sister in the "new system of things" when she is resurrected. She asked me if I didn't want to see her? I told her I did not believe the way she does and that I never had. I told her I just went along with everything to make my mother happy. Anyway, she said that she loves me and that she always will. Whatever, I was so pissed off yesterday. Today I am actually relieved. I am getting married next year and my fiance' and I have a lot of planning to do. I know you guys don't know but my sister had a brain tumor. The gave her "red blood cells" during the surgery which let me know that she wanted a blood transfusion "in the event" well anyway she died because she aspirated vomit to her lungs. She had no control over half of her body. the rest of my family was really upset because the Dr. said the last thing they could do was give her a blood transfusion and wait. Needless to say none was given until I asked the doctor to show us any document with her handwriting showing otherwise. That was shown hours later and she passed away. Of course my non J-dub family was really upset and they said alot of stuff to my mom and others. Of course, I would have reacted the same. I was just a zombie during the whole thing. I finally decided to go to school get a job and leave my controlling husband and the organization. I did it all at the same time and I recieved counseling. Well I can say that I am really happy now except for the fact of me watching my sisters and my mother letting themselves be controlled. They are letting themselves be brained washed. I am glad I never let that get out-of-control on me at least as a parent. My kids are happy and now they look at my mother and sisters as people "who don't know any better" They are upset about the wedding but they also say they would never want to be controlled and taught how to hate. I think it upsets my mother that I have not gone back to the organization because of the fact that the Elder who spoke to me about my wicked ways reassured me that in less than a year I would be crawling back to the congregation asking for forgivness. That only in the organization would I find true happiness etc. And that my children would not respect me. In my opinion they act better then they did before. I am talking to my dad about the whole thing and I will ask him if he plans on attending my wedding because I know my mother and my sisters will not go. I will just be wondering if he

  will be their to walk me down the aisle. If not I have a back up. Thank you guys for all your support. I have finally found a place to vent and share my feelings. I really need the support. I will keep you posted on the wedding, and on my wedding plans.

  Lulu
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  My sisters wedding...

  by zamora251978 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  below is a copy of the e-mail my sister sent me.

  i had to make arrangements for my kids to be babysat somewhere else until after the wedding.

  there little hearts are broken.

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  zamora251978

  Thank you Essie...I feel like right now I just need alot of support. You guys are the only ones who truly understand the way that I feel. I am so happy to have my friends that support me too. They are like my family. They are my family..

  Lulu
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  My sisters wedding...

  by zamora251978 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  below is a copy of the e-mail my sister sent me.

  i had to make arrangements for my kids to be babysat somewhere else until after the wedding.

  there little hearts are broken.

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  zamora251978

  funkyderek,

  you are so right. I am going to read the book by ray franz "crisis of concience" someone told me that it will help alot.
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  My sisters wedding...

  by zamora251978 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  below is a copy of the e-mail my sister sent me.

  i had to make arrangements for my kids to be babysat somewhere else until after the wedding.

  there little hearts are broken.

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  zamora251978

  Hey Georgiegirl,

  Your idea is awesome. I am definitley doing that... I can't wait to see what happens. After we got kicked out of her engagment party my mother decided to give my kids some left over cake Monday after school. I talked to them and said the next time something like that happens to tell her "NO THANK YOU GRANDMA AS YOUR GRANDSON I DESERVE MORE THAN LEFTOVERS, BUT I LOVE YOU ANYWAY" I hope that gets her where it hurts.

  Lulu
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  My sisters wedding...

  by zamora251978 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  below is a copy of the e-mail my sister sent me.

  i had to make arrangements for my kids to be babysat somewhere else until after the wedding.

  there little hearts are broken.

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  zamora251978

  I had gone to her engagment party with my fiance' and my children. That elder L like someone said Looks-down-his-nose told me that my prescence was not welcome and that I should remove myself. I am on the stance that I do not want to ruin it for my sister but I also know that anytime she looks at a family or friend that is not J-dub and that is at the wedding and asks, "where is lulu?" what will she answer? My family who is not J-dub knows the situation but some of them plan on still asking that very question... I have never been invited to my parents for dinner or anything similar to meet my fiance'. Apparently I am not allowed to bring him to the house either to meet his future in-laws. I am trying to concentrate now on my wedding and making sure that this will be a happy occasion for me and my family that loves me unconditionally (not including my J-dub family which is mom (baptised pioneer), 1 baptised sister (who commited fornication and took another sister's husband away, who is now married to her and they all attend the same congregation and they are all going to the wedding because they have repented and are now back in the truth) 2 sisters who are unbaptised publishers and 1 brother who just attends the meetings because of mom. My father well he just gets told what to do by my mom. Everyone else like aunts uncles, cousins are all catholic. Well I guess that just shows how religion divides families. I hope my sister thinks long and hard before she decides to "dedicate herself to the GB"....
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  My sisters wedding...

  by zamora251978 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  below is a copy of the e-mail my sister sent me.

  i had to make arrangements for my kids to be babysat somewhere else until after the wedding.

  there little hearts are broken.

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  zamora251978

  Below is a copy of the e-mail my sister sent me. I had to make arrangements for my kids to be babysat somewhere else until after the wedding. There little hearts are broken. My seven year old says that the bible teaches love not hate.. Bear in mind my sister is not baptized nor her soon to be husband. They were told they cannot marry in the kingdom hall because of this. Now I guess they can only invite who the elder, brother L**** says can come. Apparently, this means I only have permission for the ceremony. I paid for the hall where they will actually have the ceremony. I'm so upset. Luly, First of all I want to thank you with all my heart for doing everything for the ceremony. It really means a lot to me. I talked to R**** and A***** about you and the kids being able to go to the wedding. I told them how I felt and what I thought. They said that they talked to el brother l***** and he said that you're only allowed to go to the ceremony. I feel really bad and I don't know what to do cuz I know that you said you won't go to the ceremony if you can't go to the reception.. I just want you and the kids to know that I love yall with all my heart . this doesn't mean i am going to stop talking to you. i love you and the kids and i always will... just write me back when you can. please don't call me because i don't want to cry anymore . love you
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  Anyone have the notes for the 2007 Annual Meeting?

  by Brigido in

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  anyone have access to the notes from the 2007 annual meeting?

  i'm sure this has been discussed already but i can't seem to find a prior thread on it.. it seems that there was some "new light" mentioned about how the generation now applies to .

  the "annointed".

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  zamora251978

  Hi Brigido,

  I read some of the notes from Annual meeting off of a forum that's in Spanish. I can get the link for you and send it on. Apparently the generation is now the "annointed" the the end bla bla bla....I will find it for you.

  Lulu (Lourdes)
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  Anger

  by dawg in

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  i'm not trying to defend anyone's actions including mine, but i can certainly see how many of us feel anger.... my father is a sucessful business man, loved in the community by the "worldly" and the jws alike; he's also very logical in almost everyway until we talk about the witnesses.

  becasue he's so chrismatic, he's played a role in converting almost everyone in the family-i'm irish so it's one darn big family, into being devout jws.

  when i think about how much i love my dad, and my family and couple that with the fact that the only beef we have with one another is the fact that i see through the gb lies; it makes me mad that the love i once felt will never be there again becasue of this division.

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  Hey Dawg and everyone else,

  I am angry right now too. My sister who is not baptized cannot get married at the Kingdom Hall. An elder is marrying them. He told him I can only be invited to the Ceremony and I am not allowed to to go to the reception!!! It pisses me off because I rented the Hall where she is having the ceremony $500. So pissed!!!! Well my mom takes care of my kids after school but now I am putting them into Day Care. I couldn't bear the thought of her hurting there feelings like she did last time given them left over cake from the Engagement party after the Elder told me that my prescence was not welcome and that we needed to leave. I got baptized when I was 11 to make my mom happy and with the hopes that she would stop beating me....of course that didn't work. I always had doubts ever since I was a kid. Well I'm so pissed. Does anyone have any ideas on what to tell these elders. I would like to write them a letter. Or bethel...AAAAA it would just be a waste of my time.

  lulu