Yes, ML. I had a long discussion about it with him. Honestly, I think he goes back and forth about his feelings about us in this relationship. I think he wants out so he can be with the person he can live forever with but at the same time he has a certain amount of love and comfort with me. I think he's confused. So am I...
Posts by cognac
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30Hubby told Elders I thought JWs were brainwashed...
by cognac inguess cause i'm considered inactive?
well, he moved to a new hall and went to 1 meeting with him.
didn't even stay the whole time.
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Hubby told Elders I thought JWs were brainwashed...
by cognac inguess cause i'm considered inactive?
well, he moved to a new hall and went to 1 meeting with him.
didn't even stay the whole time.
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cognac
I know Moshe. I told him if he ever puts me in a situation where he would put me in a situation where I could be dff'ed, I'd be done with us. If I get dff'ed, it will be me who does that, not him.
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Hubby told Elders I thought JWs were brainwashed...
by cognac inguess cause i'm considered inactive?
well, he moved to a new hall and went to 1 meeting with him.
didn't even stay the whole time.
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cognac
I don't know, ms. I told him that although I'm only a little bit mad at him, I mostly feel pity for him, that does not mean that I have to subject myself to this for the rest of my life.
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Hubby told Elders I thought JWs were brainwashed...
by cognac inguess cause i'm considered inactive?
well, he moved to a new hall and went to 1 meeting with him.
didn't even stay the whole time.
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cognac
Thanks Satanus! I've missed it here! It will probably have to be a brief visit. I'm going back to college and with that, a toddler and work I'm pretty swamped... But, what you said is true. Our time here is brief...
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Hubby told Elders I thought JWs were brainwashed...
by cognac inguess cause i'm considered inactive?
well, he moved to a new hall and went to 1 meeting with him.
didn't even stay the whole time.
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cognac
I've been thinking about what my next move is going to be. I think I have a pretty good strategy but have to work out a couple of the details.
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How JW's Have Fun
by Sour Grapes in3 months ago one of my friends emailed me that.
he was invited to a jw "get together" to have some.
fun.
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cognac
Wonder what they would do if you wanted to be a stripper?
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Did your wardrobe of clothes change when you left the JW'S
by Hairyhegoat inmine did and i have not put a suit on since escaping the cult.
the mrs has given all but 1 away to the charity shops and i have loads more room in me wardrobe now.
what items of clothing did you get rid of when you got out of the cult ?
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cognac
Yes, I've just started dressing a little sexier. Actually, I'm looking for even hotter clothes...
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Hubby told Elders I thought JWs were brainwashed...
by cognac inguess cause i'm considered inactive?
well, he moved to a new hall and went to 1 meeting with him.
didn't even stay the whole time.
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cognac
They didn't do anything about it. Guess cause I'm considered inactive? Well, he moved to a new hall and went to 1 meeting with him. Didn't even stay the whole time. And now they wanted to meet with me. So, I met with them.
Well, I didn't deny it when they asked but I didn't admit anything either. Let me just say, I've been trying for years to make this work with my husband. Trying to reach agreements that we could meet each other halfway on... Everything was going fine until he decided to go back in again.
I feel like I'm getting to the point where I'm just done with this relationship. I mean, all that work just down the drain cause one day he woke up and just changed his mind. I don't want to go through this anymore... It's always a struggle and I'm done with it. And there is no way in hell I'm letting my child grow up in this cult.
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question for those with husbands/wives in the borg
by Evidently Apostate inhow do you respond when they question your enlightenment?
do you find yourself holding back explaining specific doctrinal flaws or let it fly both barrels?
i know we want our loved one to see things for what they are but even a tactfull response will cause the borg teachings to take over and everything becomes an absolute with my wife.
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cognac
My hubbys in. There has been a lot of compromise. We celebrate "so-and-so's happy day" instead of birthdays. We'll have a winter party instead of Christmas, and so forth.
He just went to a spiritual gathering with me. It wasn't a religion or in a Church.
We will give our daughter different viewpoints and ideas.
He has to meet me halfway and I have to meet him halfway on everything. It's worked so far.
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Reverse Shunning
by gutted ini have a confession.
i am using reverse shunning.. i have ignored the elders calls.
i do not want to hang out with witnesses anymore (besides my family and one friend).
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cognac
Yeah, my idiot sister is shunning me. She's d'ffed. I texted her. She won't return my texts. I think she needs to see a psychiatrist and get on meds...