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  My fade might well start today.

  by StarTrekAngel in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  many here whom have read my previous posts know more or less my situation.

  wife is not hardcore but we still bump heads from time to time.

  if it wasn't for this cult, and while it was not an issue, we had an almost perfect marriage.

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  cognac

  chastise them every time they turn their heads away from the bible or the platform.

  
  

  This is the type of stuff you should bring up in therapy... It's very controlling behavior...
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  Pranks to play in the hall...

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what pranks could you/would you/ have you played in the kingdom hall?.

  i have never but here's two i've thought of, 1) replace the liquid soap with glue 2) smear nutella everywhere in the bathroom!.

  what's yours?.

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  cognac

  Nic- that's so friggin funny!!!
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  Pranks to play in the hall...

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what pranks could you/would you/ have you played in the kingdom hall?.

  i have never but here's two i've thought of, 1) replace the liquid soap with glue 2) smear nutella everywhere in the bathroom!.

  what's yours?.

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  cognac

  The moment I utter my first words all four of my mates raise their heads to reveal polo mints in their eyes.

  Hahahahahaha, this is awesome! How did you react?
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  Pranks to play in the hall...

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what pranks could you/would you/ have you played in the kingdom hall?.

  i have never but here's two i've thought of, 1) replace the liquid soap with glue 2) smear nutella everywhere in the bathroom!.

  what's yours?.

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  cognac

  I've wanted to put www.jwfacts.com on those little Avery sticky labels and plaster them everywhere...
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  My fade might well start today.

  by StarTrekAngel in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  many here whom have read my previous posts know more or less my situation.

  wife is not hardcore but we still bump heads from time to time.

  if it wasn't for this cult, and while it was not an issue, we had an almost perfect marriage.

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  cognac

  Aprostate - I took that to mean she was trying to extend him an olive branch. Like she was trying to meet him halfway in his thinking and that she was "normal"...
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  My fade might well start today.

  by StarTrekAngel in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  many here whom have read my previous posts know more or less my situation.

  wife is not hardcore but we still bump heads from time to time.

  if it wasn't for this cult, and while it was not an issue, we had an almost perfect marriage.

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  cognac

  It was always the rule in our house that since there was a disagreement between us, it would be left up to the kids to decide if they want to go.

  Theres been times when my older daughter (6 years old) has wanted to go. It's always been their choice and I've respected that.

  They no longer want to go and their dad respects that.

  Maybe it's crazy to leave that up to the kids but it's worked for us. Keeps the peace and it's taught our kids to use their critical thinking abilities. I've seen my older one weigh different things in her mind many times and come to very thoughtful, mature decisions.
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  My fade might well start today.

  by StarTrekAngel in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  many here whom have read my previous posts know more or less my situation.

  wife is not hardcore but we still bump heads from time to time.

  if it wasn't for this cult, and while it was not an issue, we had an almost perfect marriage.

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  cognac

  Do the kids even want to go?
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  My fade might well start today.

  by StarTrekAngel in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  many here whom have read my previous posts know more or less my situation.

  wife is not hardcore but we still bump heads from time to time.

  if it wasn't for this cult, and while it was not an issue, we had an almost perfect marriage.

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  cognac

  One thing I've noticed with me is that words and actions of my kids father were completely different.

  Start taking notes of the actual actions.

  For example, guilt trips over not going to meetings, whatever.

  Instead of going over feelings so much with the therapist, go into examples of what is going on.

  You just started therapy. I'd give it a bit more time before throwing in the towel...
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  Why is shunning not a loveing arrangement

  by poopie in

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  brcause its sadistic and evil..

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  cognac

  Second topic about this Poopie. Something going on? You want to talk about it?

  I can message you my number if you need someone to talk to also. We are here for you...
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  Shunning is psychologically terrorizing

  by poopie in

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  its barbaric.

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  cognac

  Agreed. I wonder how they will all feel when the cult collapses?

  Wouldnt want to be in their shoes....