He's usually nice for 24 hours when he screws up. And this time I didn't get into a huge argument about it with him. I just feel like I'm not going to argue about it this time- I simply have a decision to make. Maybe it's my not arguing that worries him...
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135I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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cognac
Thank you so much for yours posts. I have read every single one of them and my brain is in a fog from all I have to contemplate- that and my 3 year old had me up all night cause she wasn't feeling good. All of a sudden he is being really sweet to me. I don't no why.
I still don't have a clue what I'm going to do. Until I figure it out I'm taking your advice and getting my finances and everything in order.
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WTS closes/dissolves 435 congregations in 29 countries
by Gayle inas listed in 2013 yearbook.. yes, most countries have increases in congregations.
most of the countries that have less congregations than last year, show 1 or 2 less.
however, poland shows a dramatic 327 congregations less, from 1,814 (2011) to 1,487. netherlands, 25 less congregations.
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The country's that have less congregations, is there also a decrease in publishers? If there isn't, could they just be combing congregations?
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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A guest- thank you so much for your post. I remember the 1st time I thought it was in my husbands best interests to push him. I sensed that he felt like a loser and people disrespected and took advantage of both him and his family. It pissed me off. I immediately did something about it and watched him smile in pride as he took full credit for what I really made happen. It hurt a bit, but, I shrugged it off to him being caught up in a moment where someone really respected him. That was what started this path.
I have asked him what he's missing in the relationship. He says he doesn't like any arguing or drama. So, I was very careful not to argue. But, it's like he gets bored and starts arguing when I don't in a very strong way. Not in a mean way, but more of a banter. And then in the next breath says how he loves bantering with me. Gives him some sort of chase. He just confuses me and says differing things so I never no what to do...
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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S- maybe your right. I was in a good relationship before, and I was so carefree. I was considered flighty and ditsy. I have that side of me. I have a smart side and then a very ditsy side... I like both. But, with my husband I don't feel like I can ever be just carefree...
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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S- apparently, I didn't. Never thought he'd cheat...
flipper- you hit the nail on the head. On one hand, I don't want a broken family. I want my kids to see their father every day, not just on weekends. On the other hand, I don't want to teach them to accept this type of behavior with the men in their lives...
I'm so torn...
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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S- what do you mean?
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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cognac
I love you guys for making me feel better...
hope you don't mind if I vent... But, really... Does he think so little of me that he can just throw me away so easily? I have put everything into this, how doesn't he see that? I admit, I could be difficult with him... But that was only because I wanted him to be the best he could be. He is so willing to accept at the compliments and take all the credit for how far he has come and the accomplishments he has made, but hates that I got him there nd he knows it... And resents me being hard on him even though he so loves the outcome of everything..,
I never know what to do. If I do nothing, he's miserable and depressed and doesn't feel like a man. If I push he has so much pride in himself but I'm a complete bitch... So, I try to show him what to do but he's lazy and doesn't do anything and ends up miserable anyways...
People say I push him to much. Maybe they are right. Maybe I should just let him hate himself instead of me...
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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cognac
Thank you everyone.
JB- thank you for the compliment.
I just got layed off, but still make enough on unemployment to support myself while i look for another job. I'm also thinking of starting my own business in the SEC Compliance area. I guess for now I'm going to get my own life in order. Maybe take up jogging again... Just think things through and get my life in order before making any rash decisions...
4 years ago I would have left him if he pulled this crap Moshe.
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I Think My Marriage Is Over...
by cognac ini know exactly what happened... he thinks i'm going to die at the big a and wants to be with someone he can live forever with.... we have two girls, ages 3 and 1... i really thought we'd make it despite the religion, now i really don't think so... not sure what to do... .
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Oh, and she's a jw also...