OMG Tired
I feel so bad for your poor FIL. He is living in a loveless marriage and now that he is sick he gets no loving kindness and care. AND to Boot this woman claiming to be a JW and blatantly showing that she wants rid of him. For sure keep records of what she says and what you find. Can you persuade him to change his will and quickly??? I won't be able to get this off my mind now, I don't need to watch Law and Order tonight. No seriously this is SERIOUS and needs to be watched closely, your FIL's Life is in Danger.
Please keep us posted.