@Tylin, regarding your comment...I remember a pioneer sister saying a long time ago, that if she ever lost her son, she doesn't really want to her the "ressurection bla bla bla" direct quote....because it won't help in that initial time of grieving, she said maybe later...but not then. I thought that was pretty interesting for her to admit. I totally agreed. I felt the same way.
I doubt her family members will fade away though, in their minds after this initial shock and extreme grief, the paradise will be their only ticket to see her again. IMO anyway...honestly who knows.