Welcome James Jack - It sounds like your Body of Elders (BOE) were like most BOE's - Modern Day Pharisees. Most likely they considered you a threat or were jealous of you and your wife, your talents and your accomplishments and they were looking for just one reason to get rid of you as an elder.
I know the feeling of being on a BOE where you know you are not wanted. I am so glad my wife and I are out. No more mind numbing meetings, no more trips to the back room. Take any of these two-bit egotistical jerks out of the congregation and they HAVE NO POWER. They are irrelevant in the real world.
Again welcome and may you find peace.