"Is this a better life Jeff as you yourself say is a danger to hate and mock what you once loved?
Reniaa"
I don't wish to speak for Jeff here, but that's a personal question, Reniaa, and you state that you don't answer personal questions. Therefore, do you consider it polite to ask personal questions?
Speaking for myself, hating something you once loved can be part of a better life if what you loved was damaging and false.