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slimboyfat joins the Mormons!

by slimboyfat in

i know that some people on the board have experience of being mormons, so i would be interested in your feedback.

at church this afternoon it was an uncanny experience.

in the past i've read a lot about mormons, so i thought i was prepared in general for what it would be like.

passwordprotected

Question - did you ask about the magic under pants? And if so, how do you go about getting a pair?

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What Happens at Judicial Committee Meeting on Apostasy

by passwordprotected in

this was a famous case here in the uk, based around the experiences of matt barrie (aka hobo ken).

we've uploaded the audio recording of his judicial committee meeting with the glasgow bishopbriggs congregation elders and you can listen/download the (long) unedited file here:.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/k1pajlf7duc5zgh/matt%20judicial%20raw.mp3.

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First judicial hearing is here (unedited so lots of stuff to fast forward to at the start)

https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B3xUhp9lfFlXSHpBVzF2TVg1b00/view?usp=sharing

Appeal hearing is here (again unedited):

https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B3xUhp9lfFlXcjhpbnFQdkRObVE/view?usp=sharing

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Update on My Journey: 8 Years After the End of Watchtower Control

by passwordprotected in

i last updated you guys almost 2 years ago here.. i thought i'd post an update.. the peace i discovered having decided to let the angst, worry and fear over what to believe is as strong as ever, although i am keeping more abreast of what jw.org (formerly known as wtbts) is up to, and i never cease to be shocked and surprised.. as my last post mentioned, i split from the jw girl i married in 1993 and both of us have moved on with new partners that better fit who we are as grown adults, rather than the children we were 23 years ago.. my partner has no religious background whatsoever, although her children are being raised as catholics by their father.

hearing her kids openly doubt, question and even ridicule the religion is heartwarming and exactly the way it should be.. as for my children, they continue to be a never-ending stream of joy and pride.. my oldest son is now 16, having been only 8 years old when we left the watchtower.

he had big anxiety problems for a while afterwards, worrying about armageddon etc.

passwordprotected

I last updated you guys almost 2 years ago here.

I thought I'd post an update.

The peace I discovered having decided to let the angst, worry and fear over what to believe is as strong as ever, although I am keeping more abreast of what JW.org (formerly known as WTBTS) is up to, and I never cease to be shocked and surprised.

As my last post mentioned, I split from the JW girl I married in 1993 and both of us have moved on with new partners that better fit who we are as grown adults, rather than the children we were 23 years ago.

My partner has no religious background whatsoever, although her children are being raised as Catholics by their father. Hearing her kids openly doubt, question and even ridicule the religion is heartwarming and exactly the way it should be.

As for my children, they continue to be a never-ending stream of joy and pride.

My oldest son is now 16, having been only 8 years old when we left the Watchtower. He had big anxiety problems for a while afterwards, worrying about Armageddon etc. That was very tough to deal with, but through time he left those fears behind, and I'm not sure I could meet a more calm, level-headed, open-minded and mature 16 year old. My girlfriend regularly comments on his wisdom beyond his years.

I can only shudder at what his life would be like - having the mind and outlook that he does - had he be confined by the harsh borders of JW life.

He's moving into his 5th year of high school later in the summer, and has absolutely no clue what he wants to do with is life, but he is certain he wants to travel and experience the world, an opportunity I'm all to happy to support him with.

My youngest son is now 7 and he never experienced the JW life, having been born almost a year after his parents left. Despite his mum and dad splitting up, he's an unbelievably joyful kid, a pure pleasure to be around. He recently told me that sometimes he feels like crying, and I was concerned and asked him more, only for him to explain that sometimes he feels so happy he could cry!

Unbelievable. How many of us "born ins" ever felt like that?

Again, another strong reward for the pain and sacrifice of cutting yourself free from JW mental slavery: the positive knock-on effect for your children.

At this point I'd say to any active JW who is worrying and doubting over what direction to take in life, if you have children, set them free by freeing yourself from the Watchtower.

Yes, it WILL be painful, but in the long run, the benefits afforded to you children are immeasurable.

A big worry, of course, is kids going off the rails if they no longer have the restrictions of the Watchtower.

To that I'd remind all parents that it's your responsibility to be examples for your kids, to coach them and guide them, and to love them unconditionally. You don't need any outside help with this, such as from a religion.

My 16 year old son was at a sleep-over party the other night. I had a quick chat with him about alcohol, telling him I didn't mind if he had a couple of drinks, but not to go mad. And he took that advice. But that's come off the back of loads of chats between us where I've openly admitted mistakes I've made. Again, this can be very hard to do in the JW world.

My 11 year old daughter is strong and confident and has a social life that I'm more than jealous of. But it's a social life devoid of the sniping and tell-taling that most of us "born ins" experienced.

On the health front, I'm a wee bit fucked. My heart disease reared its head again last December and I ended up in hospital over Christmas having survived a massive heart attack. This is hard to deal with at times. Genetics have played a massive part in it happening, but I've no doubt the stress and pain from 2008 to 2012 (when I finally made peace with religion and my upbringing) have played a huge part too.

I'm remaining positive that I'll get back to close to normal, but I'm realising it'll take lots of time.

So, for all my heart is a bit clogged up, my mind is still open and still at peace (in no small part to almost dying in a Glasgow hospital*).

I'm going to be keeping my eye on JW.org developments going forward, these are very interesting times for the cult.

*This is what it feels like: you're just going to sleep. It's very peaceful (until the doctors and nurses are shouting at you to "cough...cough! Stay with us". :-)

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From yesterday WT, don't have kids and if you do then don't see them often nor the grandkids either

by purrpurr in

unbelievable paragraph in yesterday's watchtower was "encouraging" the sheep to not have kids.

most of their growth comes from the born ins and they are still on about not having kids?.

then it went on to "encourage" those that do have kids or grandkids not to spend to much time with them and instead to spend their time serving kingdom interests!.

passwordprotected

Can someone post the full quoted paragraph please, or at least the reference?

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JW Threatened me with Violence Today :)

by cofty in

i popped into the supermarket for a few things after work today and found myself walking up an aisle alongside a couple who used to be in my tuesday group.

i see them reasonably often and always say hello much to their obvious annoyance.

i noticed that ian was sporting a shaggy beard.

passwordprotected

"It is their right to shun you."

Of course it is. Let's use this forum to defend that right and the childish behaviour that goes along with it rather than celebrate those who refuse to recognise the emotional and psychological abuse that is shunning.

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LOST - one Slim Boy Fat

by besty in

jw
friends

looks like this:.

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hasn't been seen for over a month.. if anybody sees this man please tell him to come back to jwn immediately and tell us wassup..

passwordprotected

I heard a while ago that he'd gone back to the Org. I heard this from someone who'd met him to buy WTBTS books from.

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What woke you up?

by Israel Ricky Gonzales in

in march of 2014, i was a very active jw, a ministerial servant, gave a public talk, was an attendant for the memorial, and one of 4 cleaning captains for an international convention of 40,000+ attendees.

so what woke me up?

an innocent comment from a co-worker about the candice conti court case rang a bell that could not be unrung.

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The ditching of the book study groups and the "rising gas prices" reason.

I was an elder at the time and heard the pain from people who's only association was the little tea-drinking time spent in the private homes where the BSGs were held. I couldn't understand why the Governing Body would state "gas prices" as a reason to abandon the BSG arrangement, which just a few months earlier had been praised in the Kingdom Ministry.

I heard about the GBs letter through the grapvine before the body of elders had had it read to them. Icouldn't believe they were doing this, so I went online and Googled it (why? No idea now...) and came across an apostate blog. I glanced at some of the articles and seeds were sown.

I decided to try to look after my own spirituality, and that of my family, by reading the Bible more. This opened up more questions in my mind, and within a couple of weeks my life fell apart.

I resigned as an elder and quit the meetings. The whole process took about 2 months. I DAd within 6 months. Free ever since.

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Canadian branch getting rid of their trucks and drivers

by wannaexit in

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friends

a recent letter to the elders outlined the new arrangement for delivering literature to the congregations.

the canadian branch will be downsizing by eliminating drivers and trucks and utilizing commercial carriers to bring the boxes of monthly literature .

more outsourcing and more lay offs.. the funny thing about it is that they want to have the literature delivered to various private homes of the rank and file rather than have the literature delivered to the kingdom hall.

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No more Book Study Groups in private homes because gas.

They never tell the real truth behind their cost-saving* changes.

*ditching the Book Study Group was about protecting the Org from legal challenges re. abuse in private homes.

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Geoffrey Jackson's Golden Apple watch INVESTIGATED

by C0ntr013r in

i went through the original footage to get a good look at the watch.. from these pictures we can probably say that it is a apple watch and that it has a golden color.

the color on the pin is black, and the band is white, grey, silvery or beige.. .

the pin is in the exact place for it to be a apple watch.. only apple watch edition have the gold color.

passwordprotected

I have an Apple Watch, the stainless steel one. I could afford to buy it as I work hard for my money. But I admit to being a bit embarrassed wearing at first. Still have a bit off the JW "showy display of one's means of life" mentality.

if he does have one and he chose to wear it at the RC then that's quite brazen, right?

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Branch Manual 2015

by Marvin Shilmer in

apparently the backroom arguments have been heard and decided.

the royal commission finally uploaded a redacted version of the 2015 branch manual.

watchtower lawyers were looking to have as much redacted from this manual as possible.

passwordprotected

We take the lead, but don't see us as leaders. That way we have plausible deniability.