Thank you Big Tex for your encouraging words. This has been so hard. When I get the engery I will PM you sometime. Thank vs77
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Oral sex and pedophiles
by verystupid77 ini have a question.
why dose it take two witnesses if a child says someone molested them.. but with oral sex it only takes the one spouse to get the other mate in trouble.
why the difference.
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No More Work on Saturdays at Bethels Worldwide
by Lost-In-Translation ina letter was read at tonight's meeting announcing that the governing body has decided to stop work on saturdays at all bethels worldwide.
bethel workers are encouraged to now spend saturdays with their local congregation in field service.
the new arrangement goes into effect june, 2009.. what do you think are the motives for such a change?.
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When I was a Bethel being a sister under the age of 30 I had to work two Saturdays a month. I was so stupid. None of the other sisters worked any. I mean it. All the sisters I worked with never came in. Our overseer was older and did not have to work any Saturdays that I can recall. The only time one of the sisters would come in on a Saturday was when our overseer was there on the rare Saturday. I was so stupid and I never missed one of my work days. I felt I was serving Jehovah not man and if Jehovah said to work than I was going to work. I could have blown them off so easy but I was stupid. vs77
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Oral sex and pedophiles
by verystupid77 ini have a question.
why dose it take two witnesses if a child says someone molested them.. but with oral sex it only takes the one spouse to get the other mate in trouble.
why the difference.
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I am so sorry Big Tex when you said
In my case, I WAS able to produce 2 eyewitnesses but they were rejected because (1) they witnessed separate rapes; and (2) they were worldly and we all know how worldly people lie.
As far as I know one of my rapists is still a ministerial servant in good standing. The other 3 are dead.
I am going through about the same thing right now in my hall. It is a living nightmare. I am just in shock at how the elders are handing this. I even wrote them letters because they refuse to talk with me and I just got two sent back return to sender. The elders totally refuse to see any problem. I have been called a lier to my face. How can they say that to me? One elder told me that the pedophile would never lie to an elder then he turned right around and called me a liar.
I was told by one elder that pedophiles can and will hold children as long as they are helping the moms. He told me that I was a gossip and was causing divisions in the hall by letting parents know. No one can know who a pedophile is. It truly makes me bitter. vs77
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Oral sex and pedophiles
by verystupid77 ini have a question.
why dose it take two witnesses if a child says someone molested them.. but with oral sex it only takes the one spouse to get the other mate in trouble.
why the difference.
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Do You Think The Organization Is Corrupt?
by minimus inmany witnesses regard the organization as their "mother".
whatever "mother" says is what we do.
"mother knows best!".
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Corrupt can anyone say pedophiles
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How did you REALLY feel when you where out in field service?
by megaflower ini never felt comfortable knocking on door and i hoped no one would be home.
my presentation was short and to the point because i did not want to get into discussions.
as we walked from "door to door" i secretly wished i could be like all the ones i saw in the nighborhood.
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JW's have time stolen from them by the society. You are told the knocking on doors is a very important work. In fact, it is life saving. I never felt that way. It just made me depressed,anxious and edventually angry.
I hated it, never did feel good doing it but I also thought that it was the right thing to do and that it did mean their lives. I look back right now with peer bitterness. I am so hurt it is unreal. They lied to us to get us to make money for them is all I can see right now.
They defently stole from us by taking away our life.
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A LOOK INSIDE BETHEL LIFE, THE ORGANIZATION BEHIND THE NAME
by Bethelite Elder inwhen i first came to bethel, the going reassurance was that if you stayed more than 5 years, you would be considered permanent.
many of the bethelites bought into the idea and stayed many years.
however, a few years back they had a test of faith.
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Wecome hope to hear more about your life at Bethel.
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Oral sex and pedophiles
by verystupid77 ini have a question.
why dose it take two witnesses if a child says someone molested them.. but with oral sex it only takes the one spouse to get the other mate in trouble.
why the difference.
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I have a question. Why dose it take two witnesses if a child says someone molested them.
But with oral sex it only takes the one spouse to get the other mate in trouble. Why the difference. It just seems like they are so obsessed with oral sex but pedophiles Oh Well we need two wittnesses for that. Then they drag the poor child into the meeting and confront the molester before they even call the police. Why the difference in how they handle oral sex and pedophiles?
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...Jehovah`s Witness`s have the most Stable Marriages...
by OUTLAW injehovah`s witness`s have the most stable marriages..very few jehovah`s witness`s cheat on thier mates..most jehovah`s witness`s stay married for thier entire lifes to the same person..jehovah`s witness`s have the happiest marriages!..becoming jehovah`s witness`s,has saved many marriages..................................................my experience has taught me none of that is true.................what is your experience?............................outlaw.
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I truly loved my husband when we got married but he was also an elder. The religion came first. No matter what. I could have been bleeding to death and if the congo needed him he was gone. We are still married but I am bitter over it. When we were first married I went to the CO and talked to him about how hard I was finding it. His replay was my husband was an elder first.
No they do not encourage happy marriages.
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Did you Observe Medical Emergencies Occur While Meetings Continued On?
by flipper ini've thought a lot about this over the years .
bonafide's thread reminded me of this and how unethical and insensitive it was for jehovah's witnesses meetings to go on without stopping while some rank and file members were having medical emergencies right in the kingdom hall.
my experience i will never forget.. in 1983 i was among some pioneers who were giving experiences at a circuit assembly in front of a crowd of about 2,000. this 83 year old sister was standing at the microphone and when she got done with her part - she sat next to me in her chair on the stage.
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My husband had a major heart attack while a being the school overseer and it was his fault that he would not tell anyone he was having bad chest pains as he latter said he wanted Jehovah's meeting to go on. But at the end of the meeting when he finally did tell another elder. The elder let me drive him to the hospital alone instead of calling an ambulance. He could have died in the car with me alone, it was all so very stupid looking back. Now I am just bitter at it all, the they brain wash people to give up their lives for the cause so to speak. My husband is just very deluded, hopefully he will see someday.