i need to know..... .
would love your opines.. .
mtsgrad
possibly but for me all it did was make me not able to sleep. be a computer hound so i could talk to him.. but that was before we were living togehter
now i cant sleep more then three hours if hes not beside me... i hate sleeping alone.. no it doesnt make me love him more... all it does is reinfoce in your mind how amazing ther eperson is. cause you know everything your missing and cant wait to get it back
so i started this thread on another board too.
we have a sizeable number of people - men and women not in a relationship perhaps here.
ladies - what is it that you want in a relationship emotionally, mentally, sexually, and materially ?
oh i forgot one...
kiss me :)
kisses on the forehead are the sweetest...
so i started this thread on another board too.
we have a sizeable number of people - men and women not in a relationship perhaps here.
ladies - what is it that you want in a relationship emotionally, mentally, sexually, and materially ?
ok are you prepared because this is going to be long,
i want to be able to open up entirely emotionaly the problem is you have to be totally100% comfortable with someone to be able to do that,..... im almost there theres about five percent left to go. im not going to say i want a man to opent he door for me and allways know exactly when i feel bad and shower me with kisses cause that is not realistic.
-if its obvious that i feel like shit ask me whats wrong? i dont need to you hold me until i feel better cause that could be for a long time... the most important thing firstly is that i know u care, thats what something like that tells me.
-know how to listen even if you think what im talkign about is stupid. sometimes all a women needs to do is vent.. all you have to do is add an isee in there every once in a while and your set. but dont just pretend. that pisses us off. actually listen, and we will do the same.
-do the dishes or vacuum every once in a while or something to that effect, major brownie points there (lol)
-ask what we want to do sometimes, and actually do it cause you know we do things we dont want to do all the time for you
-even if we fight always make me feel like you still love me. i dont ever want to go to bed angry. especially when you are someone like me with depression its never a good thing. a fight never has to include anything personal or anything derogatory. personally i think you can solve issues without a fight in the first place even if either of you are angry
-Tell me you love me, all women know their partners do but when its actually said to you theres no better feeling, in my experiance atleast.
-try to understand my point of view even if ts wrong. dont just tear me to peices but try and see what i mean why i feel that way about a certain situation
-be cuddly once in a while its lovely
-this is very important.. realize that when i have my period i am gonna be emotional so the thigns you do even if not bad will effect me more than normally and i might be a crazy bitch. so try not to yell at me for it... we will usually tell u ahead of time anyways, if you cant tell on your own
-if im crying give me a hug... dont have to hole me the whole time.. but a hug makes me feel better
now for the random things
-keep the facial hair its sexy
-same with chest hair( manscaping is weird)
- dont get mad over sex... if anything is ever weird we understand it jsut as much as your do. we all learned the same things.
-remember the clitoris!!!! yes you can have an orgasm during sex from hitting the g spot etc. but if u start to go towards the clit for a while and then stop...... no... never stop it feels to good. let us have that atleast.... clitoral orgasm please. basically if you start it. you have to finish it!
-this is jsut a tip basically. masage earns major brownie points :)
-understand love
theres lots of other thigns i could say but none of these thigns are extremely important the random ones i mean. there is no perfect man or women. all i ever want is love and understanding. you could be the msot incredible asshole to me one day andill still love you. love is not dependant on someones temporary actions... understand love. know that the only reason id ever leave you was if you were abusive or cheated.. nothing else matters cause all can be worked out. if i love you ill see past all your little quirks and problems and i wont care. sure it might bug me sometimes butthat doesnt mean that if you piss me off during the day i wont love you the same amount as i did when i woke up in your arms.
the most important thing to me is let me know im loved. i could have the shittiest possible day. but if i come home at night and go to bed snuggled in beside yuo. all of that will melt away. cause really where would we ever rather be, then with the man we love :)
ive considered writting letters to them many a time. another thing im going to do is send them a copy of my book chronicling my life from babptism to when i was disfellowshipped it is pretty good and quite funny. they should enjoy this
sorry i posted another one it was a mistake, i clicked enter by accident...... anyways, the dubs are getting closer and closer to shunning everyone not jsut those who have been disfellowshipped or left the religion.
today i got a phone call from my grandmother that one of her best friends can no longer talk to her anymore.
my grandmother always didnt like the fact that my family were jw's but she was always respectful to everyone and kept her views to herself.
yeah same with my bf. tehy would have disowned me a long time ago if i talked to them like he does his parents. but hes starting to make a bit of progress with his dub mom
sorry i posted another one it was a mistake, i clicked enter by accident...... anyways, the dubs are getting closer and closer to shunning everyone not jsut those who have been disfellowshipped or left the religion.
today i got a phone call from my grandmother that one of her best friends can no longer talk to her anymore.
my grandmother always didnt like the fact that my family were jw's but she was always respectful to everyone and kept her views to herself.
thats fuckin retarded to be df'd just for that i always read my horoscope... my parents new this aswell.. she just didnt like it. i also have a vampire fetish always did isnt that a little demonisitc lol
this thread was an accident the real one is on active topics
not merely ban religion, but cause people to believe in only sensible, testable things, thereby quashing anything related to religion, would you do it?
how about change this entire system of belief. you need not believe in anything. you should no based on observation facts and scientific method. but unfortunately no one seems to ahve these skills anymore. relying on opinion and belief is like relying on faith... mind control people, thats where that leads. i dont think any of you would like to swap one form for another, but thats what you would be doing
sorry i posted another one it was a mistake, i clicked enter by accident...... anyways, the dubs are getting closer and closer to shunning everyone not jsut those who have been disfellowshipped or left the religion.
today i got a phone call from my grandmother that one of her best friends can no longer talk to her anymore.
my grandmother always didnt like the fact that my family were jw's but she was always respectful to everyone and kept her views to herself.
sorry i posted another one it was a mistake, i clicked enter by accident.....
anyways, the dubs are getting closer and closer to shunning everyone not jsut those who have been disfellowshipped or left the religion. today i got a phone call from my grandmother that one of her best friends can no longer talk to her anymore. my grandmother always didnt like the fact that my family were jw's but she was always respectful to everyone and kept her views to herself. personally i wish she didnt but this proves the point i am trying to make. they made the decision a long time ago to leave religion at the door and just be friends, not to get in any debates. anyways, my grandmother called her up for a coffee and she said that she couldnt be friends with her anymore. And you want to know why, because she helped her granddaughter.. her exact words were " i cant go out for coffee anylonger because you helped michelle move in with her boyfriend, and living together out of wedlock is wrong." what the fuck is wrong with these people. what is wrong with helping your grandaughter move, and move in with one of the nicest possible guys you could meet. i never even thought i would be in this good of a relationship from my oast experiances of abusive relationships and emotional problems. i am so sick and tired of this mantra that people are supposed to abandon their entire families, even if they werent even disfellowshipped. it makes me so pissed off i want to cry. if i were a mother there is no possibly freakin way in hell that i could leave my child and go to another state in his or her time of need. which happened to someone i know. you family and most importantly your children come before all else. fuck jehovah. your going to destroy your family over an invisible spirit in the sky.. are you fucking nuts... you guys need your fucking head examined... sorry i might get written up or something over all the cursing but im jsut so damn mad.. opinion please???
