I have not read any of these responses.
I was 13 when I made friends with a new gal in the cong. Her Mom was a Baptized JW her dad was not interested.
I met my friend at the KH and then at high school and we ended up having sleepovers. I slept over at her home usually. We had less room and my mom was divorced. That was kind of a deal breaker in our cong.
Her dad was a creepy bathroom creeper. He would come in when I showered in the morning and would use he toilet while I was using the shower!!
He would then peek into the shower and ask was in there? He would pull back the curtain while holding his weiner and look me over. He would then lean on the toilet for a minute while I fumbled with the curtain and tried to cover up. I was freaking out! I was a 13 YO girl who was embarrassed to go into the girls locker room in gym class and this creep is looking in on me in the shower. I don't know what he was doing to himself while I tried to cover up, but I can guess.
I told my JW mom who told me to not tell anyone and just be quiet. We needed to encourage Mr. G. to come into the Truth and this might be way.
I ended up going to my friends home two more times and her creepy father did it again. My mother threw me under the bus for the Watchtower.
I confronted her about it recently and she admitted it,yet, wouldn't say it was the wrong thing to do to recruit someone.
This still bothers me 35 years later. I can only guess what he did to his daughter and no one did a thing for her.
The worst part is my Mom's total disconnect and inability to see that allowing your child to be molested for the Watchtower is insane.
God, I hate those people.