But that doesn't answer your question when two people that claim to have a relationship with God have two very different views in regards to something, liek the case of BTS and I and predestination, right?
I guess, but I'm not comfortable with that specific example because I'm not familiar with it. To give us a frame of reference I'll use something you said in this thread, rather than take it off topic with what I (and you) consider doctrinal disagreements. I feel like both of us could give a shit about who is RIGHT about predestination - it doesn't affect either of us one bit, and there's nothing we can do about it either way.
Earlier the example was given of asking a random grouping of Christians how JESUS feels about homosexuals. Your response is that "most would agree that it is wrong". I completely agree.
However, "most" in no cases equals "all". I talk with a gay Catholic on another forum who is a member of a gay-friendly parish, who sees nothing wrong with homosexuality as it is an immutable state of being and he knows that Jesus doesn't have a problem with it either. He disagrees with MOST Christians. On such a simple and IMPORTANT question, there should be harmony among people who claim to know Christ intimately. There isn't in this case, and in many others - I trust we can agree on that and not get hung up on minutiae or specifics of THIS particular example, which will just muddy the water. I only gave the example so that you would know where I was coming from, not so it could be overanalyzed and brushed aside.
The discord amongst believers about such simple questions can't be justified or transformed into virtue. It's a flaw in the faith, and someone must be lying when they claim to know Jesus.