Heybaby, I too felt that way, as you can see there are some people who have issues (ehem Farkel and Outlaw) judging from their posts above.
Some people are just not the sort that treat others in a nice way, maybe their mom beat them when they were little too many times.
Who knows? But they have no reason to be mean to others. Mean people suck as the saying goes. You bet they'll take note, I don't care.
You hang in there and do what's best for you. I appreciated your post and I agree whole heartedly.